[Saffie]

Just thought I'd post to see if anyone had any advice for me. My boyfriend who I've been with for 6 months, well it would have been 7 months next week... But he broke up with me a month ago since then. And well quite frankly I'm really confused about what has happened, we broke up because he wanted to but he didn't really give me an explanation. And since then he's been saying he loves me, that he made a mistake and that he wants me back he misses me ect, so obviously I'll get my hopes up thinking he wants me back and then if I ask if he wants to get back together he'll just shoot me down saying somehting like "no its a bad idea". And last weekend he slept at mine and we slept together, all night he'd been kissing me ect. Then the next day he said " last night was a one off, I'm not going to see you again you might get the wrong impression", i dont know how he had the nerve to say i might get the wrong impression when he's the one making a move on me while im trying to leave him be to make his mind up. Our relationship before was fine, we were happy so i dont know what he expects to happen this time that would be so bad. I really do want him back, my friends have no advice for me they just think he's being a .
But yeah any advice would really be appreciated.
thanks,
Saffie

[pretzel]

Your friends are right.

Unfortunately he got what he wanted on that one night at your house.

Don't be suprised if he doesn't tryi it again in a couple of weeks or so.

[Saffie]

He's never seemed like a guy who would do that though, he's always said he hates how his friends just use girls for sex and then ditch them. So im not sure, but thanks for your reply

[WildChild]

Agree with Pretzel. Darlin' hope the sex was good, cuz that's all he wanted. It's a power game, as long as he gets what he wants he is in control. Don't come when calls. Move on.

[Guest]

People change.

Situations change.

Circumstances change.

It appears to me as though you have been reduced to a "booty call" in his mind. Is that the way you want to be treated?

It also appears like you're in denial about the situation and your current circumstances.

If I were you, I'd move on and not communicate with him at all. Will it be difficult? Yes. Will it be worth it? Yes.

After 30 or 45 days with no contact see how you feel and then re-evaluate if necessary.

Find someone who treats you the way you DESERVE to be treated and not the way they want to treat you (booty call).