Alright, so I need some more help! My boyfriend moved to a different state for about 7 months starting in June of 2010, which was also when we officially said that we were in love with each other. Well, I just found out that while he was there he held hands with another girl. When that happened me and him were not dating so he technically did not cheat on me. But, the fact that he waited so long to tell me kind of makes me feel like he has been trying to hide it from me because more than just hand holding happened. I don't want to accuse him of anything because I have no proof that anything else happened, but he says he held her hand but he didn't have any feelings for her. So I don't know what to do. The past is the past and I can just drop it and let it go because him holding a girls hand isn't really that bad, but at the same time I don't know if that's all that happened. So, do I drop it, or do I try to figure out more? Thank you so much for your help! <3 Nemo
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Maybe honey he missed you, sometimes the need to connect with another human being of the same sex, in any fashion is due to the pain of missing someone special..
He told you, trust is important in a relationship and in any event you weren't together so you are going to have to let it go, thank him for being honest and letting you know something that obviously has bothered him from him bottling it up inside and be blessed that he didn't leave it in the closet...
That is important....
Drop it
There is nothing to figure out...PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!Comment
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Alright. Thank you so much, you have been a lot of help!Comment
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