[leezard]

I always believe honesty is the best policy. If you don't want to break up with him, tell him that, but I believe he deserves to know about what your feeling and what you want to do. It might hurt him, and you might still break up, but he deserves to at least make that decision as well.

But, then, he might actually be alright with it, and thankful that you respected him enough to tell him.

All depends on the person.

[Ashlee T.]

Other than the sex part,he is a great guy...i really dont want to loose him.

I certainly don't get the impression that you mean those words. If the sex isn't there, and your solution to that is to cheat, what are your intentions after you "eat" this one piece of "cake"? Do you intend to carry forward in a relationship with your boyfriend, and then what...what until the next piece of cake comes along?

Ask yourself those questions. Weigh your options here. You are the only one who can make the decision to be a cheater or not to be a cheater. Tis you that has to live with that...and unfortunately your unsuspecting boyfriend too. Its your choice.