[innocent_eyes]

Hey everyone would really love some insight into my situation, both from females and males.

Backround: together 6 months, im his first gf and he is 2 years younger than me.

Basically me and my boyfriend are on a weeks break after a fight this morning. To me, he completely over reacted and i just cannot understand his logic.

Stayed at his last night but fell asleep before we were intimate as i was so tired. Woke up this morning and he was sooo ****ed off. He said he couldnt sleep at all last night and i was selfish to fall asleep when i knew he was wide awake. WTF?

I understand on some level a guy would be annoyed cause he didnt get anything that night bit i genuinely didnt mean to fall asleep. Anyway i thought we could make up for lost time in the morning but he was so moody we were just fight.

From hes perspective he says he would never do that to me and that it comes down to him thinking im not as interested as i once was before.

Weve had fights before and he has had to apologise before because he was so dramatic and made things much worse so think this break is a result of many fights accumulating.


But i really cant understand his logic. Am i just insensitive or is he too sensitive and insecure?
Need outside perspective please

[Girlie_blondex]

Sounds like he is being unreasonable and you two need time apart. So take a step back, give him space, and when you feel ready talk to him about it.

[rcoreyus]

He is being unreasonable. Tired people sometimes fall asleep - they can't help it. Actually he should have been flattered - falling asleep next to someone shows a real level of trust.

Assuming that this doesn't happen all the time then I don't think he should object at all.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think perhaps he has an issue being two years younger than you, that he is constantly worried that you will find someone else, your age, or older and so to him, sex means that you love him, falling asleep means to him that you are moving on, no longer interested..

It's an immature, emotional, in-security of his.

Do you tell him you love him, hug him, smile, look into his eyes, etc, etc, without the sex part or are you really just "being" with him...