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  • beca
    Junior Member
    • Jan 2012
    • 1

    Please someone help

    i date my x boyfriend for 2 years and 1 month. he broke up with me because i cheated on him a few times. i have tryed to talk to him but he wants nothing to do with me anymore. he even told me that he hates me. we had alot of problems in our realationship and he used to treat me wrong i think that was the reason i cheated because of everything he did to me. but i still know what i did was wrong. i still love him and miss him it has almost been 2 months that we have broken up WHAT DO I DO
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    If he dislikes you for cheating on him, mostly it is up to him to forgive you so you two can start anew. If he was treating you wrong, it is probably better to find a new relationship with someone who treats you better and someone you now know not to cheat on.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Little
      • Feb 2007
      • 4329

      Why do you want him back? So that you can continue to cheat on him, and he can continue to treat you poorly?

      I serially cheated on every boyfriend I had because we didn't see eye to eye on personal needs in a relationship - this ended with them treating me in a way I found quite poor. Since learning what I need in a relationship and sorting through quite a few men who did not meet it, I was lucky enough to find a man whose needs match or complement mine, and cheating has never been an option. I urge you to learn from your mistakes in this relationship and move on to figuring out what you want in the next one.
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