[Annoyed1]

Ok so I've known my partner for 10 years we've been on and off timming was never right, only been dating now for 1 year straight and last month or so this guy friend he says he only seems to pick him up when I'm not around then lies about it to me Says the fella walked here an only stayed for 20 mins or so but actually was like 2 hours just don't get why he would lie ??? I no this coz we have security cameras on our place and he must think I never look but I have been recently just so confused and angry don't no Wat to do, input plz?

[Hugo-B]

I'm sorry I can't make out exactly what you're saying here; we're both confused!

Are you saying your guy friend is gay and is picking up the guy you're dating? And that he says he was with the man for 20 minutes but lied because he was actually with him for 2 hours?

Can you try and re-word that post to make it a little clearer please?

[lizzardb63]

Are you thinking your partner is doing something illegal with this other guy or do you think he's doing something sexual with this guy? Is this other guy a bad influence that you wouldn't like him to hang out with him or is there a specific reason why it matters how long they hang out? I know soemtimes guys lose track of time and just sorta "guess" how long they were there, or maybe he didn't think it was a big deal. I know my fiance will tell me "I'll only be there for like 30 minutes and it turns into 3 hours"...soemtimes it just happens.