[Abdul]

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[kr12345]

What happened? I read your email thoroughly. It was rather gripping actually. Excuse the bigheadedness but I'm usually quite good at sussing things out. I also know a lot about Asian cultures and how they work.

Does she fear Allah? If so, head for her conscience and send one email, differnt frmo the others, simple and honest. Tell her how hurt you are. Remind her about the importance of truth etc., and that you deserve honesty. Tell her you won't be angry and that you will kepp it for yourself. Get her worried and tell her to tell the truth or she will start asking her sisters. This is why she reacted in such a scared way when you told her sister. She is probably very worried about this other guy knowing.

Throughout my 20s i would say Iwas quite lost. I needed to feel loved and I needed quite a lot of attention. I was unfaithful too. i didn't know what I wanted and I didn't listen to my conscience. i got the guilt years later. I think she is quite lost. She could be in love with this guy but also loved the exotic encounter with you, it was like an escapism thing or a taste of something else before a lifetime commitment. What is for sure, is that she had feelings for you, possibly a type of love. No woman can maintain a caring relationship, kissing and cuddling when there are no feelings - what did she gain from that? Did you give her lots of presents, etc.? No! She liked you. SHe went to efforts to skype you etc but i beleive she knew she couldn't be with you as this other guy existed. I also know what it is like to be with quite a controlling guy, fear is diffuclt to recognise sometime s but maybe she is so involved with him that she is too scared to get out. Having passwords etc to your account is very intense.

You seem not to get a sdtraight answer frmo her. You don't want to be with a woman who is so secretive, shady, etc. She should at least be honest. if you want honesty still, you can email her saying you can't live peacefully without knowing the truth, that you will keep the truth to yourself, you swear, that you are open minded enough to know it is possible to love two people, that you will not be hurt if it is the truth, etc, OR you will be forced to contact Jam......(the other guy) to find the truth.

Good luck. it may not seem it now but you are better off without a complicated person liek this. Time heals. Mekthoub.