[kati119]

Hello everyone, I feel entirely stupid for asking this, but those videos where there are college orgies and all this dorm sex real? Does stuff like this actually happen? Ill be going to college next year but my boyfriend is going to college this year and i guess im feeling a little weird just because he will be rooming with one of his cousins who is huge party boy and is known for hooking up with a lot of girls...I completely trust my boyfriend but he also falls into to peer pressure alot and i dont want him getting into anything like that. Whenever i see those videos i feel like its entirely fake. But then again most people i talk to about college are always talking about how crazy and amazing college is.

[madlionly]

Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and You have to trust him to know that he would not do anything like that. trust is the key word in a realtionship

[Harmony]

No, they are not real. While plenty of students who are arrive at college are around the typical age when most people are becoming sexually active those videos are choreographed with the roles being played out by actors, just like any other film. I can't tell you I don't believe group sex has never taken place at some time or another in most colleges, since it probably has (more likely just a couple of horny couples in a double dorm room as opposed to an actual 'orgy') but these incidents are probably few and far between.

Remember the terms 'crazy' and 'amazing' are relative. Most people at college are enjoying their first stint of freedom, going wild as they're cut loose from the parental strings.

Agree on taking turn to call each other so you speak each night or something. I hear the workload at college is pretty heavy, many of the people there are more focused on work than anything else, trust me, drinking and partying gets boring quite quickly.

[rcoreyus]

There are a lot of people in college, so there are occasionally parties that get completely out of hand. There was one years ago at my school that resulted in a major change in policies). Everything you see on the web is almost certainly fake. OTOH, it can be difficult for relationships to last through college - there are so many new people to meet. I think its important to think about your relationship - is it really something you expect to continue for the rest of your life? It does sometimes happen, but its unusual for relationships at your age to be life-long.

[BarbaraARoudebush]

they're not real! all of it are scripted