[lil03]

Okay so everything started like 5 months ago, my boyfriend and some of his friends and I were smoking weed one night, we went inside the bathroom and we smoked after that my boyfriend layed down n the bed and i left to the kitchen and he stayed with one of his friends inside the room. They closed the door... i dont know why.. Then i went back to the room and they both jumped and stopped doing what they were doing. My boyfriend was sitting down and his friend was standing up. I went inside and they were quiet.. I stared at them and then i left the room and left the door open and then they closed it again. The next day i just thot i was bein silly.. But then after some weeks they kept acting weird, they touched each other kind of weird, like gently and i dont know it was just weird, they whispered each other.
And also after that time my boyfriend started wanting to have anal sex.. which was weird for me bc he ddnt really like it before..
and then my boyfriend his cousin and other guys went to Las Vegas, and after they come back My boyfriend had to move in with that "friend" because my boyfriend got kicked outta his apt. And instead moving in with his cousin he decided to move in with that friend hes being acting so weird with. They stay in the same room and smoke weed a lot, then one day they invited me to smoke weed with them and after we smoked we were just talkin and my boyfriend said something like "Imma push you hard or something like that" then his friend say " and what about me .. i was like what the ****************...
And then yesterday he stayed over in my apt. Well today he left and after 30mins i got a call from his "friend" well it was my boyfriend he was on speaker and he said " hi where did i sleep last night?" i said " with me? why?" then he said "because my friend doesnt believe me i slept with you"

I was like WHAT THE ****************?! is he your boyfriend now??! like who does he think he is by acting like that?! If my boyfriend doesnt sleep in his "friend's" apt. He gets mad!?

So please... could someone help me, give me their opinion.. Im literally soooo freaking worried..

[Pollon]

I sure sounds like your boyfriend has something more than friendship going on with he "friend." Have you seen any other evidence that your boyfriend might swing both ways. Does pay attention to men in a way that seems odd to you? Does his choice of adult entertainment lean in the gay or bi direction? Has he brought up the idea of a threeway?

If he did have something going on with this guy, what would you do?

[Ashlee T.]

I think you're going to just have to ask him and hope that he will decide to be honest with you. Could be nothing. Could be drug related...perhaps they're doing drugs together (maybe something he thinks you wouldn't approve of??). It does sound fishy...and you're gut instinct is probably right.

Don't freak out and get all emotional about it (not implying you would..I just know that if you do, he'll shut down and then most likely not be honest). Just be frank with him and ask him point blank.

[lil03]

Its just the fact that he treats that one friend different from the others.
And the thing is that in his culture he is more used to being with guys that girls. So.. that also makes it more easier for me to kinda guess he does have somethng wit this guy. But i hope im wrong..

&&& I dont know what i wud do if he did have something going on with this guy.. i mean its not somothing that i wud expect from him..