Sorry to but into your forums ladies. I needed a woman's opinion. Right, I was flirting with this girl (been talking/texting for quite a while), and I asked her "boxers or briefs" - thought it was worth a shot. It didn't end well for me - now she's basically said were not speaking anymore. Annoying thing is i genuinely like her. Apologise and seem desperate or leave it?
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You tried to be too forward in your flirting at the wrong time. Apologize, grovel, but don't seem too desperate. Let her have a free shot at you in the future.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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In my opinion, she thought that you liked her, but then you turned it sexual in her eyes so that put her off... As if you are like all the other guys.
Apologise and tell her it was not your intent to make her feel that way...PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!Comment
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I'd say sorry, give it some time without any screw-up being a complete gentleman, then hopefully things should go back to normal.Comment
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