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  • abby24
    Junior Member
    • May 2013
    • 1

    Hi ladies. How would this make you feel?

    My 31 year old boyfriend and I were suntanning at the beach last weekend when this boy, who was 12-13 and his friends came along. he started hitting on me. My boyfriend laughed and just watched for while I was trying to get the boy to go away. The boy even insulted my bf, and my bf just sat there doing nothing. And I’m like what now?

    So, my boyfriend finally tells the boy to sort of go away and the boy challenges him to a wrestling match. My bf just sat there with an odd smirk like he didn’t know what to do. Then he accepted the boys challenge. So, they wrestled, and not a minute into it, the boy had my bf beat, headlocks, overpowering him, even rubbing his face in the sand at one point. And this boy could not have been any more than 110lbs and 5′2′ and bf is at least 150ish to 160 and 5′11. I had to sit there and watch this while this young boy kicked my boyfriend’s ****** and his friends cheered, never feeling so embarrassed before in my life. The worst part, my bf shed tears afterward. Oh what to do, what to do.
  • rcoreyus
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2007
    • 4369

    The boy was a good wrestler. Fortunately that isn't a particularly important skill in life. I suspect 90% of the world's male population could beat me in a fair fight - which I consider a good reason to never accept a challenge to a fair fight.

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    • Pollon
      Veteran Member
      • Nov 2012
      • 327

      I suspect your boyfriend has never really had to deal with a blatant aggressive bully and didn't know what to do. Obviously he was humiliated and feels he's lost some of your respect. There is probably not much you can do except be righteously indignant toward the punk.

      Comforting your boyfriend like a wounded victim will probably only fuel his feelings of being whipped.

      Your boyfriend will probably not be caught so flatfooted if this happens again.

      Good luck

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      • Stillness
        WH Poster of the Month April 2017
        • Feb 2012
        • 3679

        abby24, You asked how others would feel. Do you mean if they were in your shoes or your boyfriend's? How do you feel? Do you feel like he is less of a man or that this has damaged your relationship?
        "Those sowing seed with tears
        Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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        • CHANDLERS WISH
          • Mar 2008
          • 22440

          Do you love your boyfriend?

          Everyone has tears, a man can cry... A situation out of the norm happened. You don't know these kids.

          Why are you embarrassed? Shocked over a situation could that be it?
          Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 05-15-2013, 01:33 AM.
          PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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