So, my boyfriend finally tells the boy to sort of go away and the boy challenges him to a wrestling match. My bf just sat there with an odd smirk like he didn’t know what to do. Then he accepted the boys challenge. So, they wrestled, and not a minute into it, the boy had my bf beat, headlocks, overpowering him, even rubbing his face in the sand at one point. And this boy could not have been any more than 110lbs and 5′2′ and bf is at least 150ish to 160 and 5′11. I had to sit there and watch this while this young boy kicked my boyfriend’s ****** and his friends cheered, never feeling so embarrassed before in my life. The worst part, my bf shed tears afterward. Oh what to do, what to do.
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Hi ladies. How would this make you feel?
My 31 year old boyfriend and I were suntanning at the beach last weekend when this boy, who was 12-13 and his friends came along. he started hitting on me. My boyfriend laughed and just watched for while I was trying to get the boy to go away. The boy even insulted my bf, and my bf just sat there doing nothing. And I’m like what now?
So, my boyfriend finally tells the boy to sort of go away and the boy challenges him to a wrestling match. My bf just sat there with an odd smirk like he didn’t know what to do. Then he accepted the boys challenge. So, they wrestled, and not a minute into it, the boy had my bf beat, headlocks, overpowering him, even rubbing his face in the sand at one point. And this boy could not have been any more than 110lbs and 5′2′ and bf is at least 150ish to 160 and 5′11. I had to sit there and watch this while this young boy kicked my boyfriend’s ****** and his friends cheered, never feeling so embarrassed before in my life. The worst part, my bf shed tears afterward. Oh what to do, what to do. -
I suspect your boyfriend has never really had to deal with a blatant aggressive bully and didn't know what to do. Obviously he was humiliated and feels he's lost some of your respect. There is probably not much you can do except be righteously indignant toward the punk.
Comforting your boyfriend like a wounded victim will probably only fuel his feelings of being whipped.
Your boyfriend will probably not be caught so flatfooted if this happens again.
Good luckComment
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Do you love your boyfriend?
Everyone has tears, a man can cry... A situation out of the norm happened. You don't know these kids.
Why are you embarrassed? Shocked over a situation could that be it?Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 05-15-2013, 01:33 AM.PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!Comment
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