[Niela08]

Hello,
I met a guy two weeks ago.
On the third date we had sex. Before that day he either texted or called me. He even in invited me to go on a weekend trip.
After we slept, two days ago, he did not so I texted him he replied but it seems that he just doesn't want to see me again
This might sound strange but I don't have any experience on dating. I am 30 and he is one year older. What should I do?
Thank you for your advice!

[rcoreyus]

If he actually said he didn't want to see you again, then I'm sorry, but its over - add it to you list of "experiences" in life. If you are just assuming he doesn't want to see you based on his behavior, that might be different (but maybe not).

The reason why he doesn't want to see you again doesn't matter at all, its not worth trying to find out, or worrying about it. There are lots of people who are just not compatible for a variety of reasons - no one's fault. Its also possible of course that he was just playing you in order to sleep with you, but I'll generally give people the benefit of the doubt.

If this were a long term relationship it would be different.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

What you don't do is feel awkward or bad..

Some people's mentality is wrong. I slept with my fiancé on the third date yet, and I am a mature woman, yet some guys have huge hang ups, or as Corey stated, really are playing to get the prize. Hang up being (2 weeks) so she would sleep with anyone in that time.

Don't text him. Sit back. See what he does and if he only tries to see you without it being a date, don't go for it.

It's his loss. He didn't get a chance to know the inner you if he doesn't reply.

[Niela08]

Thank you so much for your advice! I am assuming he doesn't want to see me.
He texted me last night but it is not the same. I feel like if he was doing it because he feels pity for me it not fun at all.
We are supposed to take a weekend trip in 2 weeks, if he contacts me should I go?
Thank you so much for your advice and time. Have a great weekend

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Niela.

It is so hard isn't it?

It's two weeks away. Unless he treats you like a lady, makes you feel special NO

Be assertive own yourself, embrace what you did, as being all woman and your choice. This too is your choice, look in the mirror and smile, you know who you are.

If he leaves you alone pretty much and just text messages here there, over the week don't reply... You deserve better than being a sex object in 2 weeks time.

Do you want to type here what he texted you ? That may help us help you.