[zerosmile]

I am 23 year old male... i am in relationship with a girl past 3 year ..... but right from beginning ,she does not care me alot... and 2 years she donot love me , and still not interested in me,sometime says i came with you to forget about my past relationship , sometime our relation doesnot have future due to caste issue u both being of to different community, you are too serious for me,, bla bla .. please be my friend but i donot find myself in being her friend since old memory will revolve and i cant do anything.. then i broke all the connection, changed my cell no and blocked on facebook. but after 8 months, at a marraige ceremony of my cousin , she asked about me to one of cousin and then she got my number from her.. she called me and said that she will not hurt me again and talked a lot about her and days without me... and at dat night we had phone sex after 1 year at her pressure... but suddenly after two days things became again worst she started her old business and say to be my friend.... please some body can suggest what is in har mind and what she wanna do with me... male or female who can guess her mind tell me soon ... i am really feeling in grave. I NEED YOUR SUGGESTION WHAT IS IN HER MIND AAND WHAT TO DO?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi Zero Smile.

You do not live close to this girl? You live somewhere else? Has this been a long distance relationship?

In my opinion regardless, this girl does not understand "nice guys" and is hung up on her past mistakes. She has tried to be with you, but she is not in love.

Do not be a door mat. Do not be there for her, she is not for you.

You did the right thing by blocking, go back to that situation and move on. There is someone out there for you, who will love you that you can love back.

3 years of wasted life, is long enough.

Good luck..

[zerosmile]

thanks to chandler wish

you dragged me out of the pain of being guiltly of hurting.. by blocking her ... your word have made me more stronger... thanks a WISH

[CHANDLERS WISH]

People come into our lives, for a reason, a season, a lifetime. You just have to work out with each person that enters, what that reason was for

[zerosmile]

very true, now i get all these ,if you said these word 3 years before my idea might not match will your word... she turned me ... a boy living in his world of fantasies and imagination to a man for harsh and practical realities ....