[Kellybrits]

My boyfriend says that he is not happy and doesn't want to be in a realtionship with me he says he still loves me but doesn't wanna be with me I beg him to stay and he says he will try be happy but I know he's not trying we have been together for 5 months I really love him more than I have ever loved someone and I don't want to lose him:'( what must I do ?:'(

[rcoreyus]

People can be unhappy in relationships for lots of reasons, and it may in no way be the fault of their partners. If one person in a relationship is unhappy, the other can't really be happy for long either. In that case I think it is much better to end it and have each find a person who does make them happy.

In a very long term relationship it would be worth expending a lot of effort, but this has been fairly short.

I know its really painful to end a relationship, but I think it is better than trying to drag it out.

[HisGirl]

You can't keep someone with you who's not happy. I don't think you want to be with someone who is not happy in the relationship, do you? You should let him go so that you can be free to find someone who is as happy with you as you are with him.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

No one wants to see someone cry.. And, often they then will stay only to be un-happy.

If it's only been 5 months, he has worked out that you are not compatible as he thought.

I know it hurts. But, Kelly? The person we need to love the most, THE MOST is ourselves. From there we can let people into our lives that love us, who we are, inside and out.

I think sometimes we cling to people, fall easily but if we were to really look at it? We don't love ourselves enough to believe that we can find that match that we can love and visa versa....

By walking away and staying strong, looking into that mirror and telling yourself you are worth everything, beautiful and know what you want out of life, (once you re-assess that) you are making a good stand. One that he will even take notice off.

By, begging him to stay and crying and feeling nothing of yourself. You are being dependant, needy and may fall into that pattern...

Have a think because you are beautiful inside and out. You just have to find that in you so that you can enjoy your relationships with strength and if someone wants to walk out? Then they were not the right one for you at all.. There is someone better out there ...