[LizziB]

Yeah, I get what you mean. I did feel like I should WANT to marry him, like really want to, but I really haven't got very excited about it. I have toyed with the idea of breaking it off, but I know it would absolutely crush him... not the best reason for making that decision, but at the same time I don't want to leave him so it seems like causing heartache for no reason. I'm getting a bit of pressure from family to set a date, so that is a little stressful but will have a long engagement also partly due to the fact he doesn't seem to be in a hurry either. Which sometimes makes me wonder if he proposed to make me happy which would be sweet, but I think it makes it harder for me to feel sure as I don't know if he's 100% sure either.

[kira]

Kinda sounds like my marriage only reversed. During the weekdays he gets up at 8 and I get up at 10. Then on the weekend i'm up at 9 wanting breakfast and to get stuff done while he wants to sleep till noon and lay around in bed. Thus the reason I'm hanging out on the internet till at least 11 before I bother him.