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  • Clem23
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2014
    • 1

    He flirted with me and just told me he had a gf he's gonna dump:what to think? Help

    We work together(both 22) & spend a lot of time together every day, quite logically. He is gentle, a genuine guy, he walks me every evening to my bus stop, sometimes he even makes a detour and walk for hours to keep talking. He knows the area better than me so he shows me around, we have lunch together etc. He's had flirty gestures(putting his hand on my lower back, when he hugs me goodbye he lingers a bit and has soft eyes, once or twice he even softly kissed my cheek... we do kiss cheeks sometimes in my region, but we "fake" it and kiss the air, and it's what he did at the beginning, before he started actually putting his lips on my cheek and kissing it quite softly and slowly...), he compliments me sometimes and he seems caring (the other day he went ou without telling t to buy me coffee as i was tired) etc. We get along well, talk a lot, including about relationships, he never mentionned a girlfriend... but on Friday night as we were leaving work and walking as usual, i asked him what he was gonna do that evening. At first he said he was gonna meet with some friends, but after walking a few more minutes, he confessed to me that he actually had an appointment with his gf to dump her cause he he didn't love her anymore and he needed to have the honesty to do it. I was shocked, he never mentionned her. They've been together 2 years apparently. But still, before meeting her he spent 2 hours with me. But what should I think of that? Why did he delibarately not mention her?

    Doesn't it look like he tried to hint interest, or even court me ? I didn't see this coming at all. I'm very confused now.
  • effy2014
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 1777

    Clem23--

    This is the identical post as one made by Nina18 on September 13. Did you not like the advice given? Why the change in user names?
    "The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"

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    • CHANDLERS WISH
      • Mar 2008
      • 22440

      I've bumped your old thread, Nina, I assume you forgot your password and couldn't log in, please go to that thread.

      This thread is closed.
      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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