I am a guy, I have been in a relationship for just over 1 year with a girl from another country and different culture/language, things have been great whilst we don't both speak the same language fluently, we understand one another and can communicate well enough for day to day, and I try and express my feelings in other ways.
Anyway, we were out the other night sat on a bench over looking a beautiful view, she went on her phone to take some photos of the occasion and whilst she was doing so I saw a photo of another guy that I wasn't familiar with. I asked her who it was, her answer was that it was a guy I didn't know, from Youtube a semi-famous Vlogger. So, I proceeded ot ask her how she got the photo and she said that he gave it to her. So, I then asked how...she said she gave him her number...
At this point I was slightly disappointed and hurt, because months before she had told me she had met him but never that she exchange numbers.
Why did she hide it from me? Why didn't she let me know, considering she had already brought up meeting him?
To be honest, I am a guy so I know how most guys think - also I know that this specific guy is a 'play boy' and has a taste for girls from this country and speaks this language fluently...
So, call me slightly paranoid but surely I have a good reason to over react considering she kept it from me?
I want to know that I am either right or wrong...I am not a stubborn person and I don't have many close friends so I don't have many people to ask for advice on this.
But now I just feel let down and disappointed that she purposely hid it from me, and now I feel that I can't trust what she says and I question what else she may be hiding from me...I am probably over reacting but I moved to her country to be with her, I don't have many friends here, I am alone most of the day and I am one of those people who think and think and think so it's driving me slightly insane.
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks for your time.
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