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  • How to make men want you......

    Just thought i'd say this and see what others have to say. As i've already got a bf i don't have to worry about getting one but what do you guy's thing is the best way to get guy's to look at you and possibly want you. I've found that apart from all the usual techniques i have found that wearing a slightly looser shirt and having one of the shoulders a bit more down (so more of my upper chest is revealed) really turns them on.

    What do you guys think........
    You can do with a friend that which you cannot alone. :D

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    • I really havn't been out there bc I have been with my bf for close to 8 yrs but my friend has told me what works for her. She says she always tries to give guys a sexy look.

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      • Relax. Be yourself. Breathe. Laugh!
        "Some national parks have long waiting lists for camping reservations. When you have to wait a year to sleep next to a tree, something is wrong."
        -George Carlin

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        • If I was to go back a hundred years to when I found my husband, I would say....Be the complete package...Good looking, sexy with a hot figure to boot....Confidence comes as you date him....As he lifts you to that pedestal he makes you a star and with this comes a new found woman inside you....One that cannot nor will not be put down and will know herself with all men.....

          Walk proudly, strut your stuff but at the same time be humble...Be sexual but not too much....You want to show some sexual signs but not too many...You want him to question who is that woman inside that body is....You have to be different...Be tempting and be all that he is looking for......and maybe......just maybe...if you are lucky as I have been.....you will nab him....Take care, Caroline

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          • Confident and Classy, those two ingredients will stop him in his tracks.
            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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            • Like mentioned earlier, smile!

              Be a challenge, dont be too easy.

              If he's cool, buy him a drink. Show him respect,, if he's earned it (I.e. kept your interest long enuff to where u and your friends accept him)

              As far a s clothes go...that all depened on your own style...

              Perfume..wear MAGNETISM, by Escada....it's like crack!!!

              Be coy, make eye contact, then bashfully look down or away, then glance back over your shoulder...this KILLS them!

              Watch old movies that have MArilyn Monroe, rita hayworth, ...so on.
              And watch their body language...nothing has changed about their style compard to todays antics...thats the best way....work on yourself...work on your BODY LANGUAGE...have something better to do ...have a hobby, or sumn interesting going on in your life.

              No guy wants a girl with no friends, or no life...that only means she'll get needy and scare off his friends>><<this has happened to my guy friends and their buddies before..its not unusual.

              Just be interesting.


              -The Orbess
              "Only one love, never two loves baby. One is enough and it's driving me crazy!"

              -Orbital's "Funny Break, One is Enough"

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              • Originally posted by The Orbess View Post
                Like mentioned earlier, smile!

                Be a challenge, dont be too easy.

                If he's cool, buy him a drink. Show him respect,, if he's earned it (I.e. kept your interest long enuff to where u and your friends accept him)

                As far a s clothes go...that all depened on your own style...

                Perfume..wear MAGNETISM, by Escada....it's like crack!!!

                Be coy, make eye contact, then bashfully look down or away, then glance back over your shoulder...this KILLS them!

                Watch old movies that have MArilyn Monroe, rita hayworth, ...so on.
                And watch their body language...nothing has changed about their style compard to todays antics...thats the best way....work on yourself...work on your BODY LANGUAGE...have something better to do ...have a hobby, or sumn interesting going on in your life.

                No guy wants a girl with no friends, or no life...that only means she'll get needy and scare off his friends>><<this has happened to my guy friends and their buddies before..its not unusual.

                Just be interesting.


                -The Orbess
                Hi Orbess and welcome....I saw your Introduction and wondered what TV Show would know about this Forum...I am not doubting you but I always thought of this place as small and not going to be recognized...

                To stay on thread: My best advice to another woman and how I snared my man was "Be Yourself"....He will know you eventually so don't play a game of let's pretend....TC, C

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                • Originally posted by CarolineWH View Post
                  Hi Orbess and welcome....I saw your Introduction and wondered what TV Show would know about this Forum...I am not doubting you but I always thought of this place as small and not going to be recognized...
                  Yeah, thanx pumpkin

                  Check the intro thread, i answered your "q" there :P

                  Hope to see ya around here...you'll see me!

                  -The Orbess
                  "Only one love, never two loves baby. One is enough and it's driving me crazy!"

                  -Orbital's "Funny Break, One is Enough"

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                  • Maggie Anne's Rules for Attracting the Men

                    1. Be completely and 100% confident (even if you're not confident that you're the hottest woman in the room...you must pretend!)

                    2. Walk with your shoulders back and your chin up. Smile!

                    3. Go about your business as if you've got a big to do list to complete. Men love independant women, and they like a chase. They're creatures of challenge. Why do you think they like sports and racing so much? Eh?

                    4. Don't plaster yourself with fragrance. Choose one you like and put enough on your neck that can only be smelled when up close.



                    Those are my rules. Take em or leave em. I've been testing this theory out for quite some time and these are the most important!


                    Maggie Anne
                    Maggie Anne

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                    • Originally posted by Angelic Babe View Post
                      Just thought i'd say this and see what others have to say. As i've already got a bf i don't have to worry about getting one but what do you guy's thing is the best way to get guy's to look at you and possibly want you. I've found that apart from all the usual techniques i have found that wearing a slightly looser shirt and having one of the shoulders a bit more down (so more of my upper chest is revealed) really turns them on.

                      What do you guys think........
                      Hi i mean this very nicely, without any offence at all ...but all this talk of i have already got a boyfriend i dont have to worry about getting one !! and what mkes guys look at you....it all seems geared to trying to get a man and getting one as soon as possibleand trying do do more and more to please .

                      I dont know your age Angelic Babe ...but sometimes when read comments in other posts too about ...i need a boyfriend !! at 11 and 12 i seriously do worry ...these girls have barely got a pubic hair and remember your on the earth a long time ...they have so much time ...what happened to innocent childhood ....??
                      Ok , but seeing as you asked the question i would agree with others here that ...first learning, how to dress ...elegantly ...not cheaply, how to walk , sit down, walk in high heels , there is an art to it ...some girls walk like dockers ...or dockeressses (dockers are men who work at the docks with the ships). also learning the art of make up - cosmetics , not too much or plastering onmakeup on young skin...just a little but applied so you carnt tell your wearing make up ...

                      Some women are blessed with good look and dont need to try to make a man look at her -and for other women not so blessed actually being the opposite from trying to reveal too much body or breasts or any other part -and just behaving in a ladylike manner ...and making the most of your appearence , a good haircut that flatters , the colours of clothes to suit your skintone , a good quality handbag and shoes will always compensate ., for an outfit that perhaps is not that expensive .

                      If a man is worth his salt he will know he has something a little different from the rest ..and he wont want to let that go . BUT dont sleep[with a man to get him or tease too much , a little fun flirt and laughter . And let the man come to the woman, not the other way around !!!

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                      • I don't really find myself very attractive but I haven't had a problem getting guys and they all say the first thing they notice is I'm confident in my personality. I'm comfortable laughing and meeting their friends, I don't put up with , I'm straight up.

                        The older guys get the more they want a girl with class. Don't throw yourself at him, a lot of guys think being easy is a turn off. Smile a lot!

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                        • Looks wise I'm pretty average, so I won't say it was my looks that attracted him, but I know one thing that attracted my SO was the fact that I could carry on a conversation. A woman who can engage in witty banter and have little "back and forth" go's at each other is sexy. Sort of builds that sexual tension when you get into fun little bickering matches over something. Kinda gets your gears going! So I'd say the most important thing to attracting a man, or anyone for that matter, is a quick sense of humor and wit. Nothing can bore people worse than someone .

                          Originally posted by ChelseaRenee View Post
                          Looks wise I'm pretty average, so I won't say it was my looks that attracted him, but I know one thing that attracted my SO was the fact that I could carry on a conversation. A woman who can engage in witty banter and have little "back and forth" go's at each other is sexy. Sort of builds that sexual tension when you get into fun little bickering matches over something. Kinda gets your gears going! So I'd say the most important thing to attracting a man, or anyone for that matter, is a quick sense of humor and wit. Nothing can bore people worse than someone .
                          Woah...the board took out the word "st**pid" after someone. It should read-"Nothing can bore people worse than someone st**pid."
                          Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 08-11-2008, 10:26 PM. Reason: Merge posts

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                          • Mmm look wise your pretty average???? Hello which mirror are you looking into?

                            But, agreed looks are not the essence of the totality of a relationship.

                            Sense of humor is, i agree an absolute must...Giving him what for? A must to, he doesn't want a yes girl...

                            But i think also and i reckon you'd agree here, is add in intelligence, and non needy, non commanding, a touch of mistique, and compromise but show he's the man? That's my thoughts...

                            hey............... s t u p i d ... lol.

                            CW

                            I do like your thoughts/style.... said that bit not sucking up, but adding to that list as an "Opinion" only....
                            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                            • I am in a relationship now but when I was single and dating or just chatting to a guy I liked I would do this thing, more for me really, to test the physical chemistry with that person. I would when talking to a guy step up a little close to test the chemistry for a few seconds and then step back again. My current guy remembers me doing it when I first met him and he said it drove him wild. He said it was like an intense chemistry passing between us and then when I moved away it left him wanting.

                              Just a thought.
                              tt

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