[Private.Flangeamin]

Just thought i'd say this and see what others have to say. As i've already got a bf i don't have to worry about getting one but what do you guy's thing is the best way to get guy's to look at you and possibly want you. I've found that apart from all the usual techniques i have found that wearing a slightly looser shirt and having one of the shoulders a bit more down (so more of my upper chest is revealed) really turns them on.

What do you guys think........

Hi i mean this very nicely, without any offence at all ...but all this talk of i have already got a boyfriend i dont have to worry about getting one !! and what mkes guys look at you....it all seems geared to trying to get a man and getting one as soon as possibleand trying do do more and more to please .

I dont know your age Angelic Babe ...but sometimes when read comments in other posts too about ...i need a boyfriend !! at 11 and 12 i seriously do worry ...these girls have barely got a pubic hair and remember your on the earth a long time ...they have so much time ...what happened to innocent childhood ....??
Ok , but seeing as you asked the question i would agree with others here that ...first learning, how to dress ...elegantly ...not cheaply, how to walk , sit down, walk in high heels , there is an art to it ...some girls walk like dockers ...or dockeressses (dockers are men who work at the docks with the ships). also learning the art of make up - cosmetics , not too much or plastering onmakeup on young skin...just a little but applied so you carnt tell your wearing make up ...

Some women are blessed with good look and dont need to try to make a man look at her -and for other women not so blessed actually being the opposite from trying to reveal too much body or breasts or any other part -and just behaving in a ladylike manner ...and making the most of your appearence , a good haircut that flatters , the colours of clothes to suit your skintone , a good quality handbag and shoes will always compensate ., for an outfit that perhaps is not that expensive .

If a man is worth his salt he will know he has something a little different from the rest ..and he wont want to let that go . BUT dont sleep[with a man to get him or tease too much , a little fun flirt and laughter . And let the man come to the woman, not the other way around !!!

[AliciaV]

I don't really find myself very attractive but I haven't had a problem getting guys and they all say the first thing they notice is I'm confident in my personality. I'm comfortable laughing and meeting their friends, I don't put up with , I'm straight up.

The older guys get the more they want a girl with class. Don't throw yourself at him, a lot of guys think being easy is a turn off. Smile a lot!

[ChelseaRenee]

Looks wise I'm pretty average, so I won't say it was my looks that attracted him, but I know one thing that attracted my SO was the fact that I could carry on a conversation. A woman who can engage in witty banter and have little "back and forth" go's at each other is sexy. Sort of builds that sexual tension when you get into fun little bickering matches over something. Kinda gets your gears going! So I'd say the most important thing to attracting a man, or anyone for that matter, is a quick sense of humor and wit. Nothing can bore people worse than someone .

Looks wise I'm pretty average, so I won't say it was my looks that attracted him, but I know one thing that attracted my SO was the fact that I could carry on a conversation. A woman who can engage in witty banter and have little "back and forth" go's at each other is sexy. Sort of builds that sexual tension when you get into fun little bickering matches over something. Kinda gets your gears going! So I'd say the most important thing to attracting a man, or anyone for that matter, is a quick sense of humor and wit. Nothing can bore people worse than someone .

Woah...the board took out the word "st*pid" after someone. It should read-"Nothing can bore people worse than someone st*pid."

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Mmm look wise your pretty average???? Hello which mirror are you looking into?

But, agreed looks are not the essence of the totality of a relationship.

Sense of humor is, i agree an absolute must...Giving him what for? A must to, he doesn't want a yes girl...

But i think also and i reckon you'd agree here, is add in intelligence, and non needy, non commanding, a touch of mistique, and compromise but show he's the man? That's my thoughts...

hey............... s t u p i d ... lol.

CW

I do like your thoughts/style.... said that bit not sucking up, but adding to that list as an "Opinion" only....

[talk time]

I am in a relationship now but when I was single and dating or just chatting to a guy I liked I would do this thing, more for me really, to test the physical chemistry with that person. I would when talking to a guy step up a little close to test the chemistry for a few seconds and then step back again. My current guy remembers me doing it when I first met him and he said it drove him wild. He said it was like an intense chemistry passing between us and then when I moved away it left him wanting.

Just a thought.
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[anonymouswhitefemale]

Chelsea, is you're avatar a picture of you? If so, you're better looking than average.

As for how to make men want you....:

Long hair
Lose weight
Skirts or dresses, not trousers
Don't act like an ice queen, look open, friendly and approachable
Don't just whine about stuff, like exes, the stuff in your life you don't like, come across as happy and care free
Be funny, even a silly joke can be funny, as long as you tell it happily and enthusiastically
Be confident
Stockings
Suprise blowjobs

Feel free do disagree as you choose...

[Rapid'87]

There are 3 things that I personally look for in a girl apart from looks, (physical beauty is common)

Somone who is playful and knows how to flirt

MUST be positive and have a smile on their face

Has a good energy


If a girl has 2 of the 3, then she is doing pretty well

[OG612]

You've got a boyfriend and you want to know how to get him to fall in love with you. Right? The same thing that works on you will work on him. But if you want something to help... "speed" things along... mirror him.

Mirror the way he sits. Use some of his "trance words" (words he uses most often) like he does. If you two share the same values, show him that. By showing him, you're actually living it and not just saying it. That will make all the difference in the world as far as that one is concerned.

And don't be shy in bed. If you're sexual appetite is... "fierce" it'll help things along as well.

OG

[Guest]

this may sound a little crass, but are you looking to just get chased or do you want someone to like you? If you just wanna be chased (and even by a particular person) a lot of the previous advice could work. if you want a person to like you, just be you. they either like you that way or they dont. dont try to be something you're not because if it goes serious, years later they'll be wondering what happened to the person that never really existed.

[acchaladka]

NO1,

Yes. Thank you. Totally. That's it.

That said, if you're a girl trying to pick up, anonymouswhitefemale's list would definitely definitely (did I say definitely?) do the trick for me. It's...um...distracting just _reading_ the words 'surpise blowjob' and 'stockings' and 'hair' in the same list.

I find this discussion kind of strange maybe because here in Quebec women are a bit more straightforward. I guess. It's more like "hey, we all like sex, so who's in?" Of course, standards still apply! I wonder if these lists change by country much.

Perhaps that's a stoopid question.