[LittlemissBS]

There is a guy at my work who I like. He's a lifeguard and I'm a swimming teacher. Now I have barely said anything to that's not work related. Although he is shy in himself. I want to talk to him and get to know him but I don't know how, I have tried looking him up on social media and he has a fb account but you can't add him unless you message him.we don't see each other any time as I think he is at uni

Please help

[jns]

Welcome to WH!

Message him to get added so you can talk about work (CPR, safety, etc.). Once he has added you, you can see more of what he has been posting. Determine from that if he seems like a guy to pursue.

[Guest]

Hey There!

I'd suggest finding a way to talk to him about more broad topics. When you talk to him, how long do the conversations last for? Is it the case where you only speak for a few minutes when you pass by each other at work? If that's the case just avoid work topics completely. Instead, ask him what he has done over the weekend or if he's doing anything tonight. Slowly branch out the conversation topics so they become more personal and not work related.

After awhile he should open up a bit more and you'll get to find out more about him and then you can eventually message him on facebook and add him as a friend. One of the classic questions is just ask him if he does anything outside of work, like is he an aspiring actor, a musician, etc.

Best of luck,

Jake Collins.