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  • Popcorn&Candy
    Veteran Member
    • Jun 2016
    • 1713

    Just be friendly and be yourself: you don't need a cheesy chat-up line. A simple "Hi. It is very busy in here today, isn't it?" will do: or something to that effect. And just continue from there. Don't be someone you're not. Since you don't like drinking, don't invite her out for a drink. Maybe say "Do you like chess?" or suggest a walk in the park. That kind of thing. The right person will welcome your advances and you won't have to use a pickup line!

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    • a_dub
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2011
      • 514

      Originally posted by Popcorn&Candy
      Just be friendly and be yourself: you don't need a cheesy chat-up line. A simple "Hi. It is very busy in here today, isn't it?" will do: or something to that effect. And just continue from there. Don't be someone you're not. Since you don't like drinking, don't invite her out for a drink. Maybe say "Do you like chess?" or suggest a walk in the park. That kind of thing. The right person will welcome your advances and you won't have to use a pickup line!
      Thanks.

      If only I could find a woman who enjoys sex in the park. Then I really wouldn't have to pretend to be someone I'm not. LOL.

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      • amy40
        Veteran Member
        • Nov 2016
        • 2732

        adub
        are you looking for a wife or only sex?

        just curious

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        • a_dub
          Veteran Member
          • Dec 2011
          • 514

          Originally posted by amy40
          adub
          are you looking for a wife or only sex?

          just curious
          To be honest I really dont know. I'm not financially capable of getting married. In my culture you have to have $10-20,000 cash upfront to give your bride and then the average wedding is another $30-50,000. Besides that I'm not mature enough for a marriage, if I am being honest. Probably just not wired for that sort of thing.

          So I guess the answer is sex only. But I seem to only run into asexual women no matter where I go.

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          • amy40
            Veteran Member
            • Nov 2016
            • 2732

            thanks for being honest, adub

            however, wouldn't give up on love and some people do find it quicker than years (per your 11/21/13 post)

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            • a_dub
              Veteran Member
              • Dec 2011
              • 514

              Originally posted by amy40
              thanks for being honest, adub

              however, wouldn't give up on love and some people do find it quicker than years (per your 11/21/13 post)
              Curious what I posted back then. If I recall correctly there was a girl I was rather fond of around that time...maybe it had something to do with her.

              But thanks for your thoughts. They are appreciated.

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