That was the first date I had been on since January I think.
So with the changes coming up, I decided to wait and "shop for men" in my new city.
I admit, I'm really discouraged about ever finding a partner again. I'm attractive, and I get attention from some great men, but keeping that attention is difficult. It seems when I explain the sometimes limiting effects of my illness, my diet and lifestyle, they start moving away from me.
I think I have a great attitude toward all this. It is controlled mostly and it is not often any more that I am laid up in bed.
I have fought hard to have a good day to day life and I am not sure why that's so scary.
I think it's fair to share this major part of my life early on, when we are about to meet-or is it? Should I wait? Since it doesn't affect them too much that early, should I just keep quiet?
Sort of the evolutionary process... People look for strength in a mate. Sign of illness or disease is a turn off right? Weakness is bad.
Any thoughts?
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