Well,
Before you've gone out on a date, assuming you are working together or in a situation where you may bump into each other. We will go out of our way to accidentally bump into you or talk to you etc. We will joke with you, smile, flirt etc. And of course listen. We generally don't listen to people we're not that interested in. You know, try and find common ground. And obviously, if a guy asks you out then he wants to know more.
On a date, some guys will try and be a gentleman, some will just joke and play with you, all guys will look deeply into your eyes, will listen to you, try and touch you, hold your hand etc. and obviously, kiss you.
If he doesn't kiss you well he could be really shy, but if his demeanour is very relaxed, confident, charming etc. and he doesn't kiss you, he's probably not that interested.
After a few dates, if it's moving towards something a little more defined, he will take a far more active interest in your life try and see you often, care about what's going on in your life and spend on you. Now importantly, I'm not just talking about money, some guys will spend money on girls they have no interest on and on girls they are interested in, but if a guys is spending their time and or energy on you, for example thinking up interesting dates, thinking of things you may like, checking in on you if he know's something important is going on in your life etc, then he's interested. I certainly would never be overly creative if I wasn't that interested in something more long term with a girl.
;-)
Before you've gone out on a date, assuming you are working together or in a situation where you may bump into each other. We will go out of our way to accidentally bump into you or talk to you etc. We will joke with you, smile, flirt etc. And of course listen. We generally don't listen to people we're not that interested in. You know, try and find common ground. And obviously, if a guy asks you out then he wants to know more.
On a date, some guys will try and be a gentleman, some will just joke and play with you, all guys will look deeply into your eyes, will listen to you, try and touch you, hold your hand etc. and obviously, kiss you.
If he doesn't kiss you well he could be really shy, but if his demeanour is very relaxed, confident, charming etc. and he doesn't kiss you, he's probably not that interested.
After a few dates, if it's moving towards something a little more defined, he will take a far more active interest in your life try and see you often, care about what's going on in your life and spend on you. Now importantly, I'm not just talking about money, some guys will spend money on girls they have no interest on and on girls they are interested in, but if a guys is spending their time and or energy on you, for example thinking up interesting dates, thinking of things you may like, checking in on you if he know's something important is going on in your life etc, then he's interested. I certainly would never be overly creative if I wasn't that interested in something more long term with a girl.
;-)
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