[Vanessa R.]

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victoriachan365, my first thought is that once you have explained your position to your family and friends, then you do not need to further justify your position. This is between you, your partner and no one else. No apologies necessary and if other people question you just reply "why would you need to know my reasons?" Then just drop the subject.

Agreed. It really isn't that hard to simply agree to disagree and move on. It's crazy how many people seem to think it's normal to absorb themselves in other people's affairs that literally have zero impact on their lives but they won't let it go. For whatever reason. If anything, the poking and prodding only leads to strained relationships and awkward moments, when in reality we should be focusing on enjoying the moments we do get to spend with our loved ones. It shouldn't be a gathering to dissect someone's life decisions, especially if it isn't causing them or others around them any harm.