[lovemyself1]

Hi Lovemyself1,

Can i ask what is his personality like?

I am more of the shy sensual type and i hate to admit but there have been a couple times where i've ignored a girl, just because i don't know what to say, do or what i want.

i would say in this situation though invite him out to a group gathering (feels neutral) and see what happens, like "me and my friends are going down to the pub for some drinks do you and your mates wanna tag along?"

and then gauge his actions that night, i mean depending on the person he is the more you push the more he might pull away, this is just one method that sets neutral ground to acleast get in contact with each other and see whats going on.

Just my 0.02c
-Daniel

first off, his personality is not shy at all. he might not be sure how to handle his feelings for me if thats it. we were actually boyfriend/girlfriend...not casual sex. it was a real relationship and he knew that too cuz he was the one that asked me to be exclusive! thats y this is so confusing.
i cant invite him to do anything cuz he ignores me 100%!!!! i have tried calling, txting, stopping by, and i cant reach him.
i think i might have been a little pushy, so this morning i wrote him a text saying 'thank you for the great summer, i wont forget it and to take care of himself. call me sometime if you feel up to it.'
thats it...i erased his number so i cant try anymore. i left the ball in his court, so we'll see what happens. i'm sure he wont call or anything so i'm workin on the moving on process.