Christmas sux
My "you're such a good man" so the said, chose to bring his into our house during the holidays, because that's when I was gone visiting family. He would always get out of going because it was my family, and I would always let him. So for three years while I was visiting my elderly parents with the kids, he was ing the on our family room floor, under our Christmas tree complete with a fire in the fireplace.
I know there was something missing in the relationship, he wasn't feeling satisfied at home, but neither was I.
His affair stopped because he got caught, not because he wanted it to. Her husband came to my job, and put a tape in my hand (this after a couple of years of phone calls and my coming home and asking, and him denying) I brought it home and he denied it until he couldn't anymore. Then about a week later her husband called me and told me about the secret cell phone. He denied that too until I found it in his car. And one of her big draws was that her husband was so awful and she was just looking for someone to have fun with. He told me one time she was his " buddy".
At first I gave him the benefit of the doubt, I have subsequently found out that he was the , calling her when I would be out of town. Once they broke up and he saw a friend of hers and he arranged to see her again.
Now its been three years almost since we had it out over the tape. I have stuck by him but he remains aloof about details and my needing to know so I can get past.
Maybe its too sordid. That's my conclusion. I am a fool for staying, but would I be a fool for going at this time. We still live in the house, who can sell at this time. and she works in our small community, in a local store and I think is biding her time until he calls again. He says he won't, but he lied so many times before.
What to do?
My "you're such a good man" so the said, chose to bring his into our house during the holidays, because that's when I was gone visiting family. He would always get out of going because it was my family, and I would always let him. So for three years while I was visiting my elderly parents with the kids, he was ing the on our family room floor, under our Christmas tree complete with a fire in the fireplace.
I know there was something missing in the relationship, he wasn't feeling satisfied at home, but neither was I.
His affair stopped because he got caught, not because he wanted it to. Her husband came to my job, and put a tape in my hand (this after a couple of years of phone calls and my coming home and asking, and him denying) I brought it home and he denied it until he couldn't anymore. Then about a week later her husband called me and told me about the secret cell phone. He denied that too until I found it in his car. And one of her big draws was that her husband was so awful and she was just looking for someone to have fun with. He told me one time she was his " buddy".
At first I gave him the benefit of the doubt, I have subsequently found out that he was the , calling her when I would be out of town. Once they broke up and he saw a friend of hers and he arranged to see her again.
Now its been three years almost since we had it out over the tape. I have stuck by him but he remains aloof about details and my needing to know so I can get past.
Maybe its too sordid. That's my conclusion. I am a fool for staying, but would I be a fool for going at this time. We still live in the house, who can sell at this time. and she works in our small community, in a local store and I think is biding her time until he calls again. He says he won't, but he lied so many times before.
What to do?
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