[kerapetse]

Sure thing sister

[kerapetse]

Ok,guys i need help,i dnt know how 2 leave dis guy im seeing coz i jst realised dat i luv his wallet nt him.I guess i ws in it 4 security reasons,u know de house,car,cash etc.Nw he lately asked me wat id do if he proposed.I dnt see myself with him till death do us part.HELP

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Then do what YOU WANT sister.

Not what others want from you.

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Try making a decision that isn't based on money.

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what you are looking is security, as well as emotional state of being. the guy with the money, forget it, but the other makes you happy,
remember is the not the materials that make you happy, it whats holdling your hand the next day that leads you. besides it takes time to build credit, but very little time to find happiness. any body can make money, but it take someone out there to make you feel good about yourself.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

what you are looking is security, as well as emotional state of being. the guy with the money, forget it, but the other makes you happy,
remember is the not the materials that make you happy, it whats holdling your hand the next day that leads you. besides it takes time to build credit, but very little time to find happiness. any body can make money, but it take someone out there to make you feel good about yourself.

Amen

CW

[kerapetse]

Fighting a lot

Ladies pls help me out,me & this guy have been dating for quite some time but lately, we are fighting like cat & mouse.Everything i suggest is nonsense to him.We are having a family gathering this weekend & i asked him to wear something respectable because he always wears jeans that are below his waist.He asked me why & i said because he needs to put a good impression,everyone will be there from granny to the youngest ever.Its fine if he wears when we ar together but going to see my family like tha tis a big no-no.Am i crazy to ask him to wear differently?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

So you ditched the one that bought you things? And staying with the other one? But, you want to "change him" well that's how he will be thinking, pending on how you said it.. He sounds rebelious, non understanding of the importance sometimes to someone, but you know what? I wouldn't change him...

If you love someone you take them warts and all and they you. What everone else thinks doesn't matter.

See, I think, your thinking, had you taken the other one he would impress but this one wont and so you are trying to get him to dress differently.

Sweetness.

Do you "really" know what YOU want?

Let him be. Your family will probably love his personality... It's you who has to decide if you can love someone un-conditionally, for who they are...

Mostly, family are just happy when they see "happy and in-love" their daughter/sister/grandaughter is, honestly... And, if they don't? You only live once, make sure it's you and your partner who are the happiest.

CW

[Guest]

i smelled GOLD-DIGGER from the start.
and besides that KARMA is going to bite back very hard.

one is in it for the compititon and the other is used for money. its a no win sitsuation for anyone. dont come crying you lost both and are alone.

[Joy]

all that glitters is not gold.

if no 2 knows about no 1 and is spoiling you to win then no1 doen'st have a fair chance of advantage if he is in the dark about no 2.

course no 2 is gonna pull out all the bells and whitles if all he wants is to win............. and guys love to win.

Don't play with their hearts....... that gives us women a bad name...... be respectful to both these men and pick one...


good luck