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i am having an affair with two women, I did not seek them, any way it started out by talking, and then kissing, and then sex.
did I like it, yes, Im very honest. I did inform them about falling in love during the affair. does one know about the other yes.
both are married, great homes. one is unhappy with her husband drinking and partying, the other dislikes his drug use.
and get this they both are fixed. what are the odds.
any way I have notice that they are competing with eath other, and yes I do talk about one to the other. why, because i dont hide anything.
NOW FROM A WOMENS VIEW, SHOULD THE GUY CONT. KEEPING THE WOMEN HAPPY, LIKE A RIDE ON THE SIDE OR LET THEM DEAL WITH THEIR OWN PROBLEMS. in my opinion if I am happy with my friends truck why should I go out and by my own and have to deal with car payments.
should I cont. to see them or encourage them to find someone else.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Um, encourgage them to "work out their marriages or walk"...

You start messing with women's minds, you are saying they are competing, that's because neither one has you totally, and they will continue to do so, each hoping that the other will win, only to be slapped in the face at the end of it, be caught out, perhaps even worse consequences, you may not make it out of your front door one day.

Date 2 women... not a problem.

I see it a problem when they are married, there are two people in that relationship and only one side gets heard.

Well you asked.

CW

[thack]

Mistake 1: getting involved with married women.

Mistake 2: breeding competition between 2 women who are unhappy in their marriages and are looking for security / replacement for their husband so they can find the strength to walk out on them.


My recommendation, find single women... Karma is a , I have known guys like you who have done what you are doing, it came around and got them too later on. (put yourself in the other guy's shoes, alcoholism/drugs or not, think about it.)


Let these women figure their life out on their own accord, not confuse them more.

[Guest]

thack hit the nail on the head.

your putting your hand in someone elses cookie jar where first off it doesnt belong there and secondly your giving us good guys a bad rap.

get your own woman. no matter what there problem is at home or in life you can be there for them as a freind, but to sleep with a married woman, .......you will get it back to when one day when KARMA sees fit. if and when you decide to have a serious relationship with someone & get married , do not get upset or mad when they cheat on you ever. because now you deserve it.

and think of it this way, you are a comfort for them in there time of trouble, its not real, or it most likey wont be real. as for them competeing, you want that and you will lose both. the first will leave b/c she will get tired of it, and the second (so called will win) and then be tired and bored as there wont be a challenge anymore. you will be the loser in this story. you have nothing to gain being with someone who is married.

you made your bed, now you have to lay in it.................sorry but true

[Uneeklyme]

I believe that an affair is mostly the cheaters fault. I say this because #1: more often than not, the person the cheater is cheating with has no idea that they are with a married person. Having said that tho, if the person knows the cheater is cheating and goes ahead anyway then its just as much their fault. Shame on you for enabling not one but two cheaters. Dating two people at the same time is no problem. I am even all for each knowing about the other but playing them against each other to the point they are competeing with each other for you? Your and **** for continuing with either of these women. IMO what you are doing is worse than what they are doing to their spouses. You are playing a game with them. Your allowing them to be deceptive liars and encouraging them to do so. It's great that people are honest and "dont hide anything" but you are not hiding anything and talking about one to the other for your own twisted gain and you know it which makes it even worse. Go buy your own freakin truck. That's what a responsible adult would do.

[MissBonnie]

Geez...

Mistake 1: getting involved with married women.

Mistake 2: breeding competition between 2 women who are unhappy in their marriages and are looking for security / replacement for their husband so they can find the strength to walk out on them.


My recommendation, find single women... Karma is a , I have known guys like you who have done what you are doing, it came around and got them too later on. (put yourself in the other guy's shoes, alcoholism/drugs or not, think about it.)


Let these women figure their life out on their own accord, not confuse them more.

Kudos to Thack!!!

Plus, can you imagine the consequence of this love triangle? What would each husband do to u and ur belongings if they found out bout you? Second, i hope ur using protection cuz who knows who those women are sleeping with behind ur back let alone their husband (unprotected) and who their husbands are sleeping with (unprotected) that they dont know about. please, review your actions, there are too many single available females in this world rather than for you to jump into these types of predicuments. Do you have any moral values for these women as individuals or are you using them for 'a good time'? Cuz if that be the case, keep that up front with them that way they wont 'feel' they have to compete.

[Hopeless Dork]

Messing with a mans wife is never a safe thing to do, Messing around with TWO mens wives, well thats just doubling the odds of something bad happening. Maybe I watch the news too much, or have seen too many lifetime original movies but... I would be afraid one of the husbands might flip out on you.

Most people blame the cheating on the cheaters and not the "other woman" or "other man" as they are not the one committed. Oh I blame the cheaters, but I blame those "others" just as much and even more so. You're attitude "they are both fixed what are the odds" implies that you aren't worried about getting them pregnant, which leaves the reader to assume theres a possibility you may not be using condoms. Bad form, if that is the case.

Not just because you may be putting either husband at risk of something you may have... but putting you'd be putting yourself at a huge risk as their husbands may not be faithful to these unfaithful wives as well.

Use your head, walk away. They are both fixed so I assume they have kids. I assume you have a mom and how would you feel as a child having your home broken apart over some guy just getting his kicked with married women. Some are easy targets, maybe their husbands have strayed and they are looking to get even, maybe they are lonely because he works too much to provide her with things she is taking for granted, maybe she just wants to add a little excitement to her day.

Either way you don't want to be the catalyst of a broken home, walk away.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Pictures................

I am going to pose you a question.

Are your threads real?

You seem to "pose questions" having read your threads and blogs...........

Are you seeking information to advise somewhere, a site, a book?

This is the first time you have stated " I am", usually it's why?

Sorry but when i read your threads/posts, they are for purpose of answers but not personal...

Because seriously, you can get the goat of a person for this particular thread ............
CW

[Livelaughlove]

Both women are cheating on there husbands and Pictures is the one to blame!!!! WOW!

These women will cheat on there husbands no matter what... What is the difference if pictures does it or he doesn't...

The women are the ones to blame here...however,

As soon as you found out they were married you should have informed the husband!!!

These women are with there husband JUST for security, they want a place to sleep at night... They are using there husbands... In turn Pictures uses them...

I still think you should still mention it to there husbands and let him either put up with this behavior or leave them!

[Tabatha S.]

consider

What will you do if one, or both decide to tell their husbands what you're doing.
Somehow, something is going to turn bad... there's no way it can't.
You have brewed a pot of poison, and it is going to hurt a bunch of people.
I sure hope they don't have children.
I wonder if you have a conscience? It doesn't seem like you do.. not really.