[tasha_correa]

Well from what you said I will assume (tell me if I'm wrong) that because of the fact that he had relations with you while he was with his girlfriend that a part of you will always be wondering "is he doing this to me". I assume this because this is what happened to my boy friend and I (may I add that we have been together for 3 years now). It is still in the back of my mind and always will be. Because you know that he has been unfaithful before you feel that he will do the same to you. Sit him down and just spill your guts to him tell him how you have been feeling, what has been bothering you about the situation, and ask him in return to tell him every thing he is feeling and thinking about the subject. Dont be afraid to be brutaly honest and ask him to be honest with you too. Hope I helped out!

[curiousgirl]

Just wanted to update...

After I wrote this, things between us completely changed. He really started making me feel like he didn't care about me at all anymore... So I sat him down and talked to him about that. We decided that we were spending too much time together, and I moved back to my moms. Well wednesday of last week, he texted me and broke up with me. Said that he wanted to be "free", and that he thought I had trust issues. .. I'm still pretty upset about it, but I wanted to thank you guys for your advice.

[Guest]

holy ****a!...

i am sorry to hear that. he broke up with you via text! well, to be honest you're better off anyway. next time maybe you should think twice about living with someone when you've only been together for less than a year. also, its sad to say that it was inevitable. he got in a relationship with you through cheating. a tiger doesn't loose its stripes.

you can take this time and just reflect. you're better off. think positively, and don't forget everything is what you make of it. good luck hun.

<3

[Hopeless Dork]

Hugs to you curious girl, it sounds like he did you a big favor. I love how he is turning it into a trust issue on your side,your fault, ahh whatever works to make him feel better with himself enough to sleep at night I guess.

Your gut told you there was something off, and that is what brought you to post in the first place. Its better you know now than waste more of your time on a guy that just isn't into things in the same way.

This free's you up to search out what makes you trully happy, and to do that on your own. Make curious girl happy with curious girl and someone will come along sooner than later to help make you even happier.

[mewhenim]

tell him you have been thinking of it and you want to know all the details.

[Karma3]

Glad you came back and updated us! I think things turned out in your favour. Better to find out now, then later.
He sounds like there was part of him (that night after the bar) that felt guilty that he did that to you, but obviously HIS feelings and wants came first. To ease his conscience, he did tell you where he ended up just to ease his OWN guilt, and even though he probably didn't tell you EVERYTHING, HE felt better to get rid of some guilt. Gotta love the fact too, that he then turned it around on YOU and said YOU have trust issues. Hahaha, like YOU started this whole thing?? Ya OK! The guy obviously has issues never taking responsibility for his own actions, and when he does, he just comes up with actions to ease his own mind. He sounds like a spoiled brat who's probably a momma's boy who never did anything wrong in his life. No worries....someone is going to encounter more of this behaviour in the future...guaranteed!!