[ladyty719]

Ok.I need honesty from you ppl...I met this guy about a hr n a half ago,I'm 23 and he's 21 .when I met him things moved wayy too fast I got prego withn 3 months of knowing him.we now have a lil girl that's 7 months,he's always cheated on me.I've never cheated.he can't satissify me sexual at all he's not into new thiiings,n only had oral sex with me 2 times.all these girls he's cheated on me with have been prego by him but didn't keep it.than he caught an std..n started throwin hints like I gave him it.so we both went to the doc n found out only he had it.and I didn't.being that we have a child together n he supports me til I find work.I stayed but didn't ever have sex with him again.its now been almost a yr since I had sex wit him.cause I don't trust him.and he don't wanna go get tested cuz I kno he's out doin him.so0 I jus wonder if its best we stay for the baby ??

[Ashlee T.]

No.

It's as easy as that. You wrote a paragraph, you didn't mention not one endearing quality about this person. You had sex, you got pregnant, you had a child.....just like many women in the world do through artificial insemenation. Yu have a daughter, you have an obligation. That obligation is to teach that little girl to be a strong, happy, respected woman. She will live by example.....and you have to be willing to live the life that you want her to live. Do you want her to think it's okay for her future guy to cheat on her all the time? Or even worse, do you want her to be one of the girls that guys like him cheat with? I think not.

Be smart, and continue abstaining from sex with this guy. Stand up tall, and learn to leave well enough alone. Me....I'd rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't love me.

[ladyty719]

thanks so00 much for the advice...you helped me n so0o many ways.