[WildChild]

Wondered where you'd been. Hope you aren't taking this too hard.

[Guest]

OMG seriously????
and when he finds out you played him like that will he be overreacting when he boots you to the curb for doing it? Something that could very well happen even if he doesnt fall for your "cute" girl trap. Why don't you just flat out tell him you know he still has his account, that your not happy about it, and that you would like him to close it. Seems to me that would be the adult, communicative, loving, trusting, I want to marry you someday way to handle it.

If she told him what she has done it would do more bad than good.

[ThexMrs]

I really don't want to relive it but I said I would tell all about what happened so here it is, short and sweet.

He got caught. I asked him about it. He said he didn't think that it was a big deal because the internet is fake. That made me mad because that is how we met. He then got ****ed off and hung up. He didn't call me that night which is fine. I sent him really nice texts the whole night saying that I wasn't mad at him but that I didn't understand and I love him, we can work this out. It got to the end of the night and he said nothing back so I kind of blew up at him. The worst thing I said was that he was stupid. So I'm not really sure what happened the day after. I was kind of a wreck. First I was sad, then angry, then confused, then sad, then ****ed. It was a cycle. Anyways, I told him that he had 24 hours to shut the account down if he wanted to be with me. The next day I checked and it was still up so when he called me I asked him about it. He got kind of mad but shut the whole thing down. The pictures are gone, etc. I thought that would be make me feel better but it really doesn't because who's to say he doesn't still talk to them? You know, so... Since then we've worked on things a lot. I mean, I didn't just let it go. Now we're doing really good again.

So that's that.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

In my books the main killer of a relationship is jealousy, which is in-security because all sorts of squabbles and fights derive from that one feeling.

This area, you need to work with sweet, cause, what means nothing to him will mean a multitude to you.

Through those emotions.

And, remember, a man's words such as "Internet is not real" does not mean you two are real, rather it isn't, until you meet the person, in person...

CW

[ThexMrs]

And, remember, a man's words such as "Internet is not real" does not mean you two are real, rather it isn't, until you meet the person, in person...

I'm not sure what you mean by that. We had already met in person when this happened. We had been in love for MONTHS at this point. We've been together close to a year but not quite yet.

As for the jealousy. That's a funny thing. I've never been the jealous type. I just feel that when you are in love with someone, you don't need to be online searching for other women or talking to them ESPECIALLY when you say that you don't have a girlfriend. If he had been saying that he did have a girlfriend, that would be a totally different scenario and I wouldn't have minded.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

He said he didn't think that it was a big deal because the internet is fake. That made me mad because that is how we met.

Oops, lol, i was referring to the above... When you meet in person that's real, until you do, then you are talking to a person "maybe" false, maybe exactly whom you've been talking to.

And, yes, if he states that he's single i would not be happy as well, just saying, it's better to state your peace and if he doesn't acknowledge it, then he's not worth it rather than get in a spin, because any man that loves you, should be proud to state, "in a relationship", i think anway.

Sorry hun... It's early here and probably wrote that wrong to what i was thinking.

[ThexMrs]

Right... I see what you are saying. Well, new story for you now. I posted a new thread about what happened tonight. I just... I don't know what to do anymore.