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lemme start of saying that im in a great meaningful realtionship with a boy nd we've been together for more that 2 years nd were very young.i have a big probem thats seems to not be to him......

i never meet his family as his girlfriend,his mom knows about us nd always acts me 2 come upstairs and visit but he never lets me and i dunno y. Today he has a game that i was gonna go to but he said not to cusz his whole fam is gonna b here.......nd i jus wana know what to do;this is tearing us apart nd i feel like he doesnt want me 2 know them, like hes embarassed of me cusz im not puertorican like them.i sent him txts sayin how i felt but he didnt txt back. I have no idea what to do.

do i leave him or is there a way 2 show him that i need 2 meet them?

i need help asap

[WildChild]

More likely he's afraid they'll scare you off or embarrass him. You know we parents stay up nights thinking up new way to embarrass our kids, especially in front of anyone they like. LOL.

Talk to him about it but I'll bet this is it even if he loves his family.

[confused_cutie=]]

i tried 2 tlk to him b4 his game nd he never answered back
he knows how much this means 2 me and that he was wrong.....
but wont ever live up to it;hes more of "ok"guy nd then never does it
ive been asking forever and it leads nowhere

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Play your cards love.....

The ones where he has no choice but to do so or not, win or lose... Because his Mum has already said "come upstairs" so:-

Say to him, " It's you I am going out with not your family and they will love me and me them, so either you introduce me to them or I'm leaving, it's simple, or are you embarrased of me?"..

That's a hard call but you cover everything in that sentence I think... and if he ignores that as well, don't see him for a few days and let him realise what it would be like without you in his life...

2 years is a long time yes, but you are both young and maybe he has older brothers for instance that don't think you should have a girlfriend at his age and would teeze him...

There are lots of reasons, point being is you have to get him to tell you why, it could be valid and maybe you would accept it a bit longer, if only you knew why.

CW