[scott1989]

OK theres these 2 girls and I have been friends with them for a long time...1 is Chloe and the other is Katy, the reason I am stuck is becuse there both not friends no more they both hate each other and they both put me in a very hard postion they both want me and they both said pick and if I pick Chloe Katy wont be friends with me and there parents love me so much and if I pick Katy Im gonna lose so much friends...and I have so much feelings for both...and for Chloe she shows her feelings to me and she talks to me about stuff/personal and I have a sense that Chloe is keeping somthing from me and it feels bad but Chloe loves me alot she said and she promised that. And for Katy she loves me alot to but she aint like Chloe Katy keeps her feelings inside and somtimes I have to ask her what she is feeling becuse she wont come out and tell me but she is getting closer to me and yesterday she said she would love me still if I dated Chloe, but she wont talk to me no more and Katys parents/family love me alot and Chloes parents like me I meet them all at once. I just enjoy spending time with them both and my feelings are so loveing for them...Im just been depressed becuse I dont no what to do...any ideas please?

[caterpillar79]

Wow! Aren't you in paradise yet? lol!

Who said you have to choose, now? Take your time, enjoy the moment. Look, whatever road you take, you will have to risk and give up something. Right now, it is best to keep the friendship. Explain to both sides that you want to keep them as friends and all of you can be together and enjoy each other's company, can't you?

Unless you are fair to both and not show favoritism, you will see cat fights.

[WildChild]

How olds are all of you?

[scott1989]

20 lol...

[Roxy-Elizabeth x]

Wow, Check You!
Well, if i was you i wouldnt choose any of them i would just stay friends with them both.
what if you do go out with one of them. your going to loose the other one, and who knows you might not be with the one you chose for as long as you thought, therefore you have then lost them both.

There are plenty of fish is the sea you know keep them as your close friends otherwise you may have noone.

x

[scott1989]

Yea but they both think of sexuel thoughts like they get closer and closer to me when I hang with out with them then there like why wont you kiss me somtimes so Im stuck with that to...and if I say no to it all the time somthing might happen...

[scott1989]

Wow! Aren't you in paradise yet? lol!

Who said you have to choose, now? Take your time, enjoy the moment. Look, whatever road you take, you will have to risk and give up something. Right now, it is best to keep the friendship. Explain to both sides that you want to keep them as friends and all of you can be together and enjoy each other's company, can't you?

Unless you are fair to both and not show favoritism, you will see cat fights.

Well Katy is saying choose me now or somthing might happen and she wont tell me...

[caterpillar79]

Pssss!

You are so hot to handle - at least, for them! LOL!

I really recommend you take your hands, and eyes off both women. They are dangerous! So volatile! If I were you, I'd keep my eyes open to the ocean, and fish for a gold fish! Hah!

Keep looking, don't be pressured into chosing anyone of them yet. Find a girl who is more than any of the two cats that are fighting for your attention. If you are able to do so, they will stop and they surely will be friends...(and conive to get your GF out of the picture!)

[ThexMrs]

First of all... I'm single, just kidding!

This is a tough situation. In my personal opinion I think that you should keep them both as just friends. If they have been good friends of yours for such a long time then why risk losing them? I don't mean because of dating one and not the other. I mean, what if you decided to date one of them and it didn't work out? You would probably ruin that friendship that you have took so much time to build. On top of that, according to what you've said, you would also lose the other because of choosing one of the other.

I hate to say this but to me, a REAL FRIEND would not make you choose. That's being selfish and it seems that they are out for their own feelings and not yours. It seems to be a competition. How do you know who's feelings are really genuine?

Keep your friends as friends.

You're young... Who am I talk? I'm 21. I'm just saying... You're young and there are so many women out there that you haven't even met yet. Keep your focus on the friendship and find someone you won't risk losing a friend or two over.

[Guest]

I would have to agree. Keep them as both friends and friends ONLY if that. You don't want to be in the middle of a chick fight..AT ALL! because you know who's going to end up loosing? YOU!

Yup. They will make choose which do you like better...etc etc..like they are now. You're too young for any chick drama. wait til you're older LOL. Have fun; date to see who you like. AND THEN commit if you want to. (but don't be an **** )

IF you really want a relationship I would suggest go for someone that WONT give you ultimatums and ake you choose between friends. IMO they have a problem with each other...they can deal with it on their own. Be smart on this one...young padwan. LOL

(yeah...i tossed in a little of star wars in there)