[outdoor4by4]

my girlfriend broke up with me,we talked we were gonna get back together,i found her at her apartment with another guy,2 days later..a friend she says but only admitted to sleeping in the same bed together and she says nothing else happened..what do you think happened??is it possible that nothing happened??

[Ahryin]

I would need more info before I could give my oppin on that...has she ever cheated? Have you ever cheated? Did they have clothes on?Who is this dude? What did he say to you?

[outdoor4by4]

my girlfriend broke up with me,we talked we were gonna get back together,i found her at her apartment with another guy,2 days later..a friend she says but only admitted to sleeping in the same bed together and she says nothing else happened..what do you think happened??is it possible that nothing happened??

their clothes were on but she was trying to hide it from me.told me in the same day she wanted to be together later she said she wants space and to be alone, neither one of us has ever cheated,she says he is a friend she brought back from seeing other friends upnorth and she was helping him get to ohio.......he didnt say much he was a little scared.the thing is she was a really loyal girl and very jealous of me through our year and a half relationship.
the one thing she didnt want the whole relationship was space

[Ahryin]

I don't think she did anything however if she did it wouldn't be cheating because she told you she wanted space. If she was jealous she either has low self esteem or believed you were capable of cheating.

[Ahryin]

Give her space, let her know exactly what you want and then back off. Women over think everything and she WILL be thinking about you.

[WildChild]

You will never know exactly what happened. Either you trust her and take her word or move on. If the two of you weren't "together", does it count ? For you?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

my girlfriend broke up with me,we talked we were gonna get back together,i found her at her apartment with another guy,

Wildchild took the words out of my mouth. "You were going to get back together"...

If she had doubts of the relationship or where she wanted to be in life, and you had broken up, what ever she did is her call, she wasn't with you at that time...

The only time it's cheating is if you had gotten back together.

They were clothed however and relationships take trust, so you have no choice but to trust her or else there's no point of a relationship, if she said she didn't that's the end of the story.

CW