[Fatin]

ok i will get staigth to the point .. when i came back to my hometown a guy gave me his numer and he was sooo intersted in me so i called him ant d told him that i am already with some one and he even told me that he is engaged and he start telling me about her and stuff then i asked him why are u taking girls number? then he was like cos i felt like ur funny and stuff so yesterday my boo didnt call all day so i decided to call the other guy and just talk u know .. but i didnt so if i did does that mean i was going to cheat???

[Guest]

If your in a relationship why did you take the other guys number?
if it had been me i would of said thanks for your number but i am in a relationship so dont need it

[Fatin]

lol yeah i know right! but then i dont know .. i felt like he was so intersted in me u know so yeah .. but i was thinking to give my email if that would be cheating .. u know when u feel like he is funny and u can talk to .. thats what i felt i even told him to be friends and stuff so we are cool with that .. yet he didnt niether call or text so its a good sign u know!

[Fatin]

and the thing that is pushing me to do it is that since i came to my home town my boyfriend didnt call though yesterday was my birthday and i was the one who is calling him and stuff u know! so i felt like he stopped caring about me .. and when he called yesterday just to make sure that i wasnt mad cos he didnt do anything as i mean anything .. *sighs* i really dont know what did i just said but its i feel like im giving all i can and more and he dont do a thing .. thats what make think bout the other guy ..

[LanaBear]

I think you need to think long and hard about this and what the results may be.

You are obviously feeling that you are missing something with your current boyfriend. You need to talk to him about your feelings before you do anything that may be construed as cheating by him. If you were to start communicating with this individual, you need to be careful that it doesn't turn into an emotional affair because you feel he is giving you something your current boyfriend is not.

Just make sure it's not a case of the grass is greener on the other side. Because most of the time it actually isn't.

[Ahryin]

Reverse the situation if your boyfriend took a girls number and called just to "talk" what would you think...how would you feel?

[ThexMrs]

Ahryin - Jackpot!

[Fatin]

yeah i guess u are right! i mean i know no matter what bad things can happened i would just stay calm and face it and do wrongs things instead .. thank u all u really helped me