[Ahryin]

Try talking to him about it again. Let him know how you feel. Then you can discuss from there on how he feels about you meeting his mom, but also try and find out if his mom has ever wanted to meet you, if she even knows about you, or asks about you, etc.

Yes she knows about me but I don't know if she has ever wanted to meet me. I have purchased a xmas present for her and after giving it to him I will then ask to meet her I guess....

[Ahryin]

i agree with karma3, he might feel if she hasnt met you cant pick you apart and criticise everything you do, all in a super sweet kindly voice of course. there's a lot of it about.

Girls if you only knew my mother..lol and knew my family..lol

I have thought about that myself only because i'm not the one to just sit back and be picked apart kindly or not! LOL Him and I have often wondered what would happen if our mothers met...my mother is west indian and not always the nicest person or sweetest apple on the tree. I'm used to it and can also spit it when necessary.....hmmm maybe thats the reason.

However I can tell you he calls her when he picks me up to let her know he reached, he does A LOT of things for her since he is her only child and his father is in east giblip (my way of saying far far far away)

[stressed]

hmmm has he met any of your family members? Do you talk about each other's families? Maybe she's told him that she only wants to meet the girl he's going to marry or, the opposite, that she's met so many girls that she doesn't want to meet any more unless it's final. Just a wild guess here.

[happy ending]

i have a friend who sounds very similar to your boyfriend, she lives with her widowed mother, and although financially independent (she is 39 years old) seems to be heavily reliant on her. for example it seems she can do little without running it past her mum, and she will change it if her mum doesnt seem happy about it. for as long as i have known her she has been unhappy in her dead end job, but it is the only one available in the town she lives in, so she sticks at it. she tells me her mum is a saint, and i am happy she thinks so highly of her but i dont know some people though officially adults dont seem to be emotionally if you know what i mean.

[sexybabe]

i recently broke up with a guy i dated for almost a year and a half. he never introduced me to his mom and i told him a couple of times how concerned i am about this. he said he didn't want his mother to complicate things, that she has this way of stirring things up and making it difficult for him and his past gfs. i realized later on that he was just not into me. his ex fiance (before me) met his mom 2 months into their relationship when they got engaged. so if a guy doesnt bring you to meet his folks, it only means one thing - he is not sure about you and is not so into you either. that's the paiful reality.

[Guest]

as someone has said he do not like to show you his home or something like this.