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  • mysterywomen
    Member
    • Jan 2010
    • 10

    there was a spark, but theres the girlfriend !! HELP!

    well i have feelings for a certain lad, but one night we got passionate night but knowing he had a girlfriend so i stopped.

    my feelins began to grow for him even more and he got a new girlfriend, WHICH IS MY BEST MATE !!

    what do i do i see them together all the time i get that gut feeling inside my stomache,

    i really do like him but him and my mate seem so in love as if nothing happend between us !!

    what do i do ??
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    leave him alone. he obviously doesnt mind being with someone else in front of you, especially knowing you two are best mates.

    is that really someone you want to be with?

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    • sourpuss
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2006
      • 3581

      He doesn't sound like a great catch to be honest. I agree with sperosi.

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        Stay away, he was prepared to cheat on his first girlfriend, with you, had you not have stopped.

        He left her but didn't come to you, to enter a relationship, he went to someone else, all-be-it your best friend..

        He never gained feelings for you, as you did with him.

        So, go find your Prince and be as happy as your best friend is

        CW
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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        • Explorer44
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 800

          I know you have feelings for him, but it appears he's chosen a different path...be careful about having any 'alone' time with him. I'd let him have his relationship with your best friend and just keep it in mind that you are worth someone who chooses to be with YOU

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