[Guest]

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I wish I could take back time. I wish I was psychic. I wish I knew. And please believe me I am not a simple, stupid or slow woman. I'm 28 with a PhD, I have everything I need. I just managed to not see the wife signs!!! I just want the pain to go away soon. I thank you all for your support.

sometimes we just plain old misjudge people. even if there are signs sometimes we miss them. it sounds like there werent really any signs for you to see.

please dont beat up on yourself. you didnt know, and you didnt do anything on purpose.

you are a good person!

[WildChild]

You tried to do everything right, you may never know what was really going on with him. They may have been separated, but going on a vacation together, he really should have told you what was going on. He's been manipulative and has lied to you.

Of course you are hurt. It's going to take time to heal. The chances of something like this happening again are slim. Be good to yourself, buy yourself flowers, work out, get a massage, write, scream, have a few good cries, then get out with your friends, try something new. You will get through this.