[asiangrace]

Thanks so much ladies for all the helpful comments!!
My boyfriend and I have Monday open, so when I'm helping with the cakes, I'll slip it in. I haven't decided how yet but all the suggestions have helped greatly!!

I am totally fine and understand if it's just a family thing. They have a BIG family!
Like I said, I just didn't want to "stand" her up if we had been (non officially) invited.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, if it's a "family" thing only, use your curiousity of how she did the invitations and read one, then you may know...

The fact that she's asked you to participate in what your doing shows she's involved you and wanted to, if it's family only there is her connection to having you participate

CW