[lolaz]

hey iwanna to say ma problem briefly, first sorry for ma bad english bt am nt an native speaker ,
idumped wiz ma bf from one week ago ,and it was ma decision bt iswear it is because our country's tradtions.
the problem now that iwanna go back again and itold our common friend to tell him that ,he accepted but under one condition that ihave to call him first.
ok idunn have problem to say sorry bt ijust feel that ill lost ma selfsteem infront of him if icalled him and thats for akind of revenge to him.
itold our friend to tell him thats am sorry and icouldnt live wizout him and all the talks that he want to hear
but idont feel comfortable to his insist to call him not he call me
ialways feel that the man should pay alot to bring his love back, bt as ifelt from him since we have broken that he doesnt care about me he just care from the way idumped him and how much he have hurt.
he didnt call me to bring me back although iwas waiting him to call .
he told ma friend thats am who end the relation so ihave to fix it and when she told him that iwouldnnt call he told her me either !!
ifeel that he doesnt care so itold ma friend to tell him that illnever ever call and then am waiting him to call bt iknow he wouldnt because he know that icouldnt live wizout him once.
so wat ihave to do to call him as he want or just waiting him and see how much he loves me becouse i start to have doubts about that
ialways know that when u dumped wiz aman he followed u everywhere bt icant see that in ma story

[sourpuss]

You broke up with him. If someone dumped me and then wanted me back I certainly wouldn't come running back just to prove to them that I love them.
If you want him back, you're going to have to call and apologize and tell him how you feel. If he wants you back, then he'll take you back. But from what I can understand, you broke up with him and he may just move on.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Swollow your pride.

Like Sourpuss said, you did the dumping it's not like he has to apologise to you and therefore contact you.

Yes, it's nice to have a man call but what is he going to say? Hi, you dumped me, I hear you want to get back with me, okay...

Nup that doesn't even make sense.

Ring him, swallow that pride of yours, and in addition communication is the key to any relationship... Not, *** for tat...

CW

[lolaz]

ok guys thank u alot idid wat ya have said and icalled him and he told me how much he miss me idiscovered that he just alittle stubborn baby now we back again and u cant imagine how i feeling right now
thanks for ur advices and yea i swallow ma pride candlers