[curiosity328]

theres this guy that ive been talking to for a while now
and keep in mind im only 15! but i need help on this situation!
at first he tld me that he didnt see us being more then
friends but i was cute but we continued to txt and talk at school
and flirt ALOT but then lately hes been reaaly flirty and he called
me last night as stayed up talking all night as he asked
me who i liked and a buncha questions aiming that he likes me but
he acted like he didnt today and its just reaaly confusing for me
HELP!

[Sprite]

Men, men, men are soooo confusing...I know exactly how you feel.

He either likes you, but doesn't want to be in a relationship or he is leading you on.

I had a guy that did the exact same to me, but lead me on, and used me. He lied to me and flirted with me ALL the time, just so that I'd get some feelings for him..and as soon as I did, everything stopped!

This happened 3 times, and I have now learnt my lesson...he now knows that I don't like him, but tries his old tricks no matter what...but it ain't working!

[curiosity328]

he told one of my frieends that he is
looking for a serious relationship though :l

thats what confuses me so much

[Futureboy]

HI C328

You mentioned your age but not his.

Now if he is 17 or 18 he may be attracted to you quite genuinely but is confussed due to pressure from friends or the fact he is sexually attracted to someone who is too young.

Sounds like he's not sure either. Carry on being friends and building a relationship on this basis. Don't get too drawn in until it is more obvious that he is into you properly, not just into the contents of your pants.

Be cool, smile be interested, but not too available.

Hope this helps

[newhere808]

Some guys, and girls, get this idea that you need to play hard to get to attract someone, keep them wanting more so to speak, and that may be what's going on here. I agree with Futureboy though, depending on his age, there could be a few things at work. If he's your age, then there's a good chance that he is just as confused about what he's feeling as teenage guys can be just as fickle as teenage girls can be.

I'd say be hopeful, but don't expect it to move forward until he finally starts to get the ball rolling.

[curiosity328]

futueboy hees a year older so maybe
but hes not embarassed to call me when
hes with his friends or hug me or anything

thank you newhere i think im just gunna
stay hopeful but wait for him to make
the move!