left husband, am i doing the right thing.
Hi well em and my hsuband have been married for 2 years now together for almost 5..
We have issues with computers. gaming etc/.\
a couple years ago he started playing pokerstars online and gambling our money away ... and hiding it so i told him id leave if he diodnt quit so he quit for a while started up again ... bla bla bla .. Finally he told me to take the credit cards away and lock the computer with a password so that was fine we got married boughrt a hosue shortly after that then he started gambling again, then we locked the computer i gave him another altumatum. and then last may i found a secret computer he had bpught without my knowledge and he was gambling again on there and had lots of porn on it too.. He of course was in rage becuase i caught him .. So i left for a couple weeks he changed he destroyed that computer in front of me . and said he didnt want to lose me again.. Everything was fine then he started playing my facebook games once in a while. We were doing stufftaking he dogs for walks and eveything and then recently he started playing Evony this stupid game on he internet.. Wich says its free but he is liek one of the top rankled ppl on there he plays for hours completley ignores me half of the time wich i used to my advantage and went and hung out with my friends i said fine if yo uwant to be a hermit go ahead but i stil lwant a life.. Then he started using his credit card for this new game cause its not free you ahve to spend money to be in power pretty much. So whatever i found the credit statments and was furious we have been fighting about it for months and 2 days ago i saw that he was still speninding on it we are in debt and why does he continue to do this .. Then i no most games have female players i never in a million years would have thought he would be talking to one of them in innapropriate ways. So after i checked his email and found out he switched his password all of a sudden igot very suspicious andi logged into his game account to find a very innaproriate email to some lady.. It said something like my lady, you astonish me more and more, cant wait to see you one her later
Your knight in shinning armour i knwo its all fantasy and whatever hten i talked to this cause she was whipering him and i said wtf are you doing talking ot my husband like this .. I later found out after a night of fighting he changed his emai lpassword becuase she was sending him pics of her with a bikini on and whatever other , she even told him he could lay his head on her anytime ???? What the is this .. .I cheated on him before we got married but i did not hide it from him i admiited it right away.. CAuse i have a conscience. So anyways i left him yesterday, i do not know what to do nwo he is saying that it means nothign shes into him .i said ya well obviously you have initiated it in some way.. Im so confused im only 21 married and have a house together .. I would rather work things out htan go through a divorce as we are financially strapped .. He is a good person jsut messed up with all this computer use.. We were fine untill we bought a computer, what should i do i have left him right now and have plans to look for my own place .. But i am finacially attached to him and the house now so !!! What to do i emailed him letting him know that we need space he needs to figure out what he really wants if he wants me or the computer once and for all .. Is a real relationship better than an online fantasy world and we wil lsee what happens when he writes back i think i will give him a month or 2 to be on hisown and maybe he can reflect on his actions. Any opinions welcome please We do love each other i know that we are both stubborn, and vendictive sometimes so please help !!
We have issues with computers. gaming etc/.\
a couple years ago he started playing pokerstars online and gambling our money away ... and hiding it so i told him id leave if he diodnt quit so he quit for a while started up again ... bla bla bla .. Finally he told me to take the credit cards away and lock the computer with a password so that was fine we got married boughrt a hosue shortly after that then he started gambling again, then we locked the computer i gave him another altumatum. and then last may i found a secret computer he had bpught without my knowledge and he was gambling again on there and had lots of porn on it too.. He of course was in rage becuase i caught him .. So i left for a couple weeks he changed he destroyed that computer in front of me . and said he didnt want to lose me again.. Everything was fine then he started playing my facebook games once in a while. We were doing stufftaking he dogs for walks and eveything and then recently he started playing Evony this stupid game on he internet.. Wich says its free but he is liek one of the top rankled ppl on there he plays for hours completley ignores me half of the time wich i used to my advantage and went and hung out with my friends i said fine if yo uwant to be a hermit go ahead but i stil lwant a life.. Then he started using his credit card for this new game cause its not free you ahve to spend money to be in power pretty much. So whatever i found the credit statments and was furious we have been fighting about it for months and 2 days ago i saw that he was still speninding on it we are in debt and why does he continue to do this .. Then i no most games have female players i never in a million years would have thought he would be talking to one of them in innapropriate ways. So after i checked his email and found out he switched his password all of a sudden igot very suspicious andi logged into his game account to find a very innaproriate email to some lady.. It said something like my lady, you astonish me more and more, cant wait to see you one her later
Your knight in shinning armour i knwo its all fantasy and whatever hten i talked to this cause she was whipering him and i said wtf are you doing talking ot my husband like this .. I later found out after a night of fighting he changed his emai lpassword becuase she was sending him pics of her with a bikini on and whatever other , she even told him he could lay his head on her anytime ???? What the is this .. .I cheated on him before we got married but i did not hide it from him i admiited it right away.. CAuse i have a conscience. So anyways i left him yesterday, i do not know what to do nwo he is saying that it means nothign shes into him .i said ya well obviously you have initiated it in some way.. Im so confused im only 21 married and have a house together .. I would rather work things out htan go through a divorce as we are financially strapped .. He is a good person jsut messed up with all this computer use.. We were fine untill we bought a computer, what should i do i have left him right now and have plans to look for my own place .. But i am finacially attached to him and the house now so !!! What to do i emailed him letting him know that we need space he needs to figure out what he really wants if he wants me or the computer once and for all .. Is a real relationship better than an online fantasy world and we wil lsee what happens when he writes back i think i will give him a month or 2 to be on hisown and maybe he can reflect on his actions. Any opinions welcome please We do love each other i know that we are both stubborn, and vendictive sometimes so please help !!
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