[belleisangelic]

my boyfriend has openly told me that he's bisexual as well..at first i went home and paced back and forth thinking " omg...is he like..cheating on me with a guy?" " has he ever had sex with a guy?" I asked him some questions and he assured me that it's just a feeling he has, nothing he wants or will act on. I trust him and I"m sure he will be honest with me if his feelings change completely..which I'm sure they wont cause I"m an amazing cook haha.
but, I just laughed it off and had a debate with him about who deserves to be with Adrian Brody and James Franco more..me or him...it's hilarious.

[Van]

It has been a little while since I posted this and did give a tiny update. Though I do except your oppinion I think your you miss judged my character.

I was not angry but more confused. I'm 19 and yes I can say in love with my first boyfriend who I've been on and off for many years. The fact that I had known him for 4 years and it was only coming now rather then earlier was what shocked me the most but I wasn't angry. Angry was the last thing that came to me, shock and confusion would have been the proper words but I can't be angry with who he is. To be honest when your with someone for that long its not just the other person dealing with an emotional confliction but both people in the relationship.

An update:
Still together, still love him. Things are different now but in a good way. We talk a lot more if anything is bothering us and more open. As for him being bisexual it doesn't phase me anymore. We talked about it, and the conclusion was that it doesn't change anything. Still the same guy I love. Hes told a few friends and I have and plan to stick by him. He says he understands why I reacted the way I did and is glad were still together and wants nothing to change. I guess its true with they say, life's roads are never smooth and it will always have its bumps. The only thing that matters is that in the end of ever road taken, there's always a happy ending and currently I'm at mine.

[LanaBear]

An update:
Still together, still love him. Things are different now but in a good way. We talk a lot more if anything is bothering us and more open. As for him being bisexual it doesn't phase me anymore. We talked about it, and the conclusion was that it doesn't change anything. Still the same guy I love. Hes told a few friends and I have and plan to stick by him. He says he understands why I reacted the way I did and is glad were still together and wants nothing to change. I guess its true with they say, life's roads are never smooth and it will always have its bumps. The only thing that matters is that in the end of ever road taken, there's always a happy ending and currently I'm at mine.

This was all very good to hear! And you are right, he is STILL the same guy you love and it doesn't have to change anything. The communication is there and that is a good thing. Good for you!

[LanaBear]

Closed per posters request.