[bunnygoesrawr]

ok so i have been dating the same guy for about a year now...and sometimes he gets on my nerves soo bad. i just want to smack him...and he drinks and i dont care that he drinks really..as long as he isnt being stupid while drinking...and well my ex that is totally still hot and im still kinda like alot. came over and said that he wanted me to dump my bf and date him..and i basically told my ex that he isnt a long term kind of person and he knows that..so im like i like you both but my bf like long term things and you like 2 month things so why would i dumo a long term for a short term..it doesnt make scence. and another ex of mine..ben likes me alot..and he says well i own my house i have a licesence and i am responible.. refering to my bf lives with his mom b/c he is on probation and has fines to pay..) and the problem with ben is he is 9 years my senior.....problem but im 18 and it shouldnt matter.. but its more of i like him too. because he is responsible and he knows how to have fun still. but i dont know what to do..like should i stay with my bf or dump him for ben. ....



to be or not to be....
together

that is the ultimate question

=(

[PJhavinfunagain]

If you even have to ask I'm guessing NOT

[Ashlee T.]

Ex is an ex for a reason, right?

Maybe current bf SHOULD be an ex....but doesn't mean you should get back with your ex.

[KMonte85]

If after a year together you have to ask these kinds of questions, then there is something missing. And if your ex's are still in your life, making advances towards you, and you're considering them, well, then you probably already know how serious you are about your current relationship.

Seems like you need some time just being single, so you can sort out who you want, what you want, and why.