CanFox,
I'm basically in your exact same situation, except there are no kids involved. I'm curious what happened with your situation? Please share b/c could really use some advice. I've been married for one year and with my husband for 7 years. It's always been bumpy but we've made it work for some reason. We fight and threaten divorce but then we comfortably stay together. It sad because I love my husband, he is my best friend, but I've never felt "in love" with him, and I've even told him this in the past. The thing is, within this first year of my marriage, I have fallen for one of his best friends, and his friend has fallen for me. It happened just like your situation, dancing and just out having a good time. It hit us like a bolt of lightening. We've talked about it many times, trying to figure out what, why, how... but all we know is that we have intense feelings for one another out of the blue. He is also in a serious relationship with one of my best friends which makes the story more complicated. They have been having problems and going to counseling as well.
I feel like such a horrible person. I would never wish this situation upon anyone. I'm in sheer agony over this but at the same time I feel elated. It's a living nightmare yet I feel more alive and happy than I've ever been when I'm with his friend. I wish I didn't have feelings for this other man, but I can't deny them. We both are trying so hard to fight our feelings and have decided to work on our current relationships before this situation gets out of control. Everyone's heart is on the line and I just don't know what to do. It makes it harder because I went to a psychic advisor (I know some of you will think I'm crazy now) but this psychic advisor has predicted many things that have come true for me. She told me that my husband's friend and I have past lives together and that we are "predestined" to be in each other's life whether we like it or not. Okay, so seriously after hearing that and feeling the way I felt, you can imagine how crazy I'm going... Whether or not the psychic is correct, I'm a hot mess because I'm caught in a love trapezoid. Help, anyone...
I'm basically in your exact same situation, except there are no kids involved. I'm curious what happened with your situation? Please share b/c could really use some advice. I've been married for one year and with my husband for 7 years. It's always been bumpy but we've made it work for some reason. We fight and threaten divorce but then we comfortably stay together. It sad because I love my husband, he is my best friend, but I've never felt "in love" with him, and I've even told him this in the past. The thing is, within this first year of my marriage, I have fallen for one of his best friends, and his friend has fallen for me. It happened just like your situation, dancing and just out having a good time. It hit us like a bolt of lightening. We've talked about it many times, trying to figure out what, why, how... but all we know is that we have intense feelings for one another out of the blue. He is also in a serious relationship with one of my best friends which makes the story more complicated. They have been having problems and going to counseling as well.
I feel like such a horrible person. I would never wish this situation upon anyone. I'm in sheer agony over this but at the same time I feel elated. It's a living nightmare yet I feel more alive and happy than I've ever been when I'm with his friend. I wish I didn't have feelings for this other man, but I can't deny them. We both are trying so hard to fight our feelings and have decided to work on our current relationships before this situation gets out of control. Everyone's heart is on the line and I just don't know what to do. It makes it harder because I went to a psychic advisor (I know some of you will think I'm crazy now) but this psychic advisor has predicted many things that have come true for me. She told me that my husband's friend and I have past lives together and that we are "predestined" to be in each other's life whether we like it or not. Okay, so seriously after hearing that and feeling the way I felt, you can imagine how crazy I'm going... Whether or not the psychic is correct, I'm a hot mess because I'm caught in a love trapezoid. Help, anyone...
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