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    How many Chances?

    What do you say. how many chances should be given to your best friend who is ignoring you without even taking notice of that
    i have given many chances to him but i do not want to tell him how he should treat me. I want him to feel that by himself.
    What should i do, talk to him about this or just give him some space?
  • Joey
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2010
    • 478

    is there any reasons as to why he is ignoring you?
    [FONT="Comic Sans MS"][SIZE="2"][COLOR="DeepSkyBlue"]"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - Chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming WOO-HOO what a ride!!"[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]
    [FONT="Palatino Linotype"][SIZE="4"][COLOR="SandyBrown"]"I dream about being with you forever." - Twilight[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]

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    • KMonte85
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 3303

      you give him the benefit of the doubt until you've decided unconditionally that your life is better without him having such a large part in it... they you start drifting away peacefully and spending that extra time on people that will enrich your life.

      However, I wouldn't suggest doing so without first taking the time to sit your best friend down and explaining how their behavior has made you feel.

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      • Ahryin
        Veteran Member
        • Jul 2009
        • 856

        There may be some issues you may not be noticing. At times we all need some space, some time to ourselves to sort things out. Its possible that your friend is going through this time. My suggestion is focus on your part of the friendship. It takes two....remember that. If you can just jump up and say we are not friends anymore because you ignored me blahsey blah then how strong was your friendship to begin with?
        [FONT="Book Antiqua"]Everything I'm not makes me Everything I am[/FONT];)

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        • Guest

          ya i agree with you Ahryn.. and i know my life has no such charm without him in my life so i already contacted him few hours ago. Things are not as better as it used to be. But i have decided to give him some time and may be some time to me as well. and i hope everything will be normal soon thanks for your help guys. i really loved those.

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