[Hopeless Dork]

Tell him the truth with your feelings leading the way. Say the babysitter he has makes you feel insecure, you see her as his type and the time he spends alone with her makes you feel worried. It lead you to a vulnerable state when you were sitting at his computer and saw his email logged in, said that you in the heat of your anxiety over finding the door locked with him and the babysitter decided to see if you were contacting her.

You respect his privacy and it was extremely out of character for you to look, but you just had a really bad moment... and now you saw some emails to that guy that have you more confused than ever.

Calm tone the entire time.

[sourpuss]

Tell him the truth with your feelings leading the way. Say the babysitter he has makes you feel insecure, you see her as his type and the time he spends alone with her makes you feel worried. It lead you to a vulnerable state when you were sitting at his computer and saw his email logged in, said that you in the heat of your anxiety over finding the door locked with him and the babysitter decided to see if you were contacting her.

You respect his privacy and it was extremely out of character for you to look, but you just had a really bad moment... and now you saw some emails to that guy that have you more confused than ever.

Calm tone the entire time.

Good advice. Really, that's all you can do. This is a bad situation and I want to say that I hope it goes well, I just don't know. I feel for you.