I'm going to put this here because I think it relates well enough to my relationship, if not... sorry lol
This made me really nervous, last night I had a dream that I cheated on my partner, with not just one, but two people, I even knew one of the people, though oddly they both looked like my partner. Anyway, I know dreams are really strange and loopy so first thing I did this morning was look up a few dream analysis sites. I have two different definitions from two different sites:
1. To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised� your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors.�� Alternatively, it� reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.
2. To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiancé, or significant other, indicates that you have let yourself down in some way. You may have sacrificed your morals and ethics and received little or no benefits in return. It may also represent your increasing desires or fantasies regarding sex. Often, those who are about to enter into matrimony may dream about sensual encounters with other people. This may symbolize the anticipation or apprehension regarding this relationship.
Well the part that scares me really is the beginning that suggests I compromised myself. It irks me on a whole new level of irkedness. D: The problem is I really don't think I have, or at least I can't come up with anything. I'm really just looking for some people to talk with me, help me come up with any ideas that could explain this.
On a side note, our sex life can get rather dull, not that we don't do it, just that it's not always amazingly creative. In other threads I've stated I'm a very kinky person I like toys and bondage, and the whole nine works, but I live with my parents and he lives with his brother's that complain when I make the slightest noise, so we are limited. This weekend we did fool around with a few different positions.
Sadly the birth control I'm on has eaten away the vast majority of my sexual desires. Where I used to masturbated 3-5 times a day, when I got on birth control the only time I really have sex/masturbation is with him(I really only see him on the weekends, sometimes into Monday-Tuesday, once or twice a day). I never discourage him from fooling around with me cause he never has a problem getting me in the mood, it just doesn't come about all by it's naughty self like it used too. This weekend we had a rare occurrence where I wanted it really bad and I was on him like a dog humping his leg (poor guy was so tired. XD)
This made me really nervous, last night I had a dream that I cheated on my partner, with not just one, but two people, I even knew one of the people, though oddly they both looked like my partner. Anyway, I know dreams are really strange and loopy so first thing I did this morning was look up a few dream analysis sites. I have two different definitions from two different sites:
1. To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised� your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors.�� Alternatively, it� reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.
2. To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiancé, or significant other, indicates that you have let yourself down in some way. You may have sacrificed your morals and ethics and received little or no benefits in return. It may also represent your increasing desires or fantasies regarding sex. Often, those who are about to enter into matrimony may dream about sensual encounters with other people. This may symbolize the anticipation or apprehension regarding this relationship.
Well the part that scares me really is the beginning that suggests I compromised myself. It irks me on a whole new level of irkedness. D: The problem is I really don't think I have, or at least I can't come up with anything. I'm really just looking for some people to talk with me, help me come up with any ideas that could explain this.
On a side note, our sex life can get rather dull, not that we don't do it, just that it's not always amazingly creative. In other threads I've stated I'm a very kinky person I like toys and bondage, and the whole nine works, but I live with my parents and he lives with his brother's that complain when I make the slightest noise, so we are limited. This weekend we did fool around with a few different positions.
Sadly the birth control I'm on has eaten away the vast majority of my sexual desires. Where I used to masturbated 3-5 times a day, when I got on birth control the only time I really have sex/masturbation is with him(I really only see him on the weekends, sometimes into Monday-Tuesday, once or twice a day). I never discourage him from fooling around with me cause he never has a problem getting me in the mood, it just doesn't come about all by it's naughty self like it used too. This weekend we had a rare occurrence where I wanted it really bad and I was on him like a dog humping his leg (poor guy was so tired. XD)
There'll come a point where we'll either "meet in the middle" or we'll peace and part ways due to incompatibility. Have you thought about what you WANT to change in the bedroom? 
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