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  • shoes34
    Junior Member
    • May 2010
    • 7

    Stripping

    I know this will sound a bit stupid - but I want to strip for my other half and to be honest have never done it we always just end up pulling the clothes off - can you give me tips on how to start this without looking silly please.

    I know sexy underwear will be on but its all about how to move without looking silly.

    Thanks
  • Hopeless Dork
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2008
    • 4255

    Google up some youtube videos of exotic dancers, or one of those strip tease work out promo's -- you don't even need to buy them to get the gist of a few little moves to stimulate his ... appetite

    Start with a lap dance, its close... its intimate, and its not like you are being judged for your 'talents' on dancing. Dress in something skimpy and sexy and straddle his lap unexpectadly... have some music on, just grind around slow dancing on his lap, more dry-hump simulation to the music basically...

    Slide your body down his body, up his body.. pop a few buttons rub his face in your chest.. slither on back down again and rub your head in his lap, shake your hair... kiss his thigh, bite his shirt... look him the eyes.

    Turn around and sit facing away from him, hike the skirt up or pull the pants down and bend over to the floor with your legs still on either side of him giving him... quite the view.. lol. Push his hands away if he touches you... its all about the tease.

    Sit on the floor a few feet away from him and continue your slowdancing.. give him peeks of different areas... pose .. bend over... think stripper floor show But it can be as mild or as naughty as you like and are comfortable with.

    You can be silly, naughty, playful... just have fun and I'm sure he will too.
    Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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    • pretzel
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 1557

      Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
      Google up some youtube videos of exotic dancers, or one of those strip tease work out promo's -- you don't even need to buy them to get the gist of a few little moves to stimulate his ... appetite

      Start with a lap dance, its close... its intimate, and its not like you are being judged for your 'talents' on dancing. Dress in something skimpy and sexy and straddle his lap unexpectadly... have some music on, just grind around slow dancing on his lap, more dry-hump simulation to the music basically...

      Slide your body down his body, up his body.. pop a few buttons rub his face in your chest.. slither on back down again and rub your head in his lap, shake your hair... kiss his thigh, bite his shirt... look him the eyes.

      Turn around and sit facing away from him, hike the skirt up or pull the pants down and bend over to the floor with your legs still on either side of him giving him... quite the view.. lol. Push his hands away if he touches you... its all about the tease.

      Sit on the floor a few feet away from him and continue your slowdancing.. give him peeks of different areas... pose .. bend over... think stripper floor show But it can be as mild or as naughty as you like and are comfortable with.

      You can be silly, naughty, playful... just have fun and I'm sure he will too.
      Gee thanks for the mental imagery

      As if it wasn't hot enough in here already.

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      • kygirl
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 1058

        Originally posted by pretzel
        Gee thanks for the mental imagery

        As if it wasn't hot enough in here already.
        lol That's what I was thinking!! I'm totally gonna have to try that one! He'll go crrraaaaazy And it'll give him something to think about in India
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        • asiangrace
          Veteran Member
          • Nov 2009
          • 281

          Dance seductively very near him, but don't touch him and don't let him touch you! I totally agree with Hopeless Dork. It IS all about the tease! It'll drive him nuts in a good way. Get as close as you can without coming in contact with his body. I always like to breathe heavily in to my guy's ear and let him feel my breathe on his neck. It drives him crazy and I don't let him touch me or vice verca.

          I like to use a scarf (I have a silk one) and I wrap I use to to dance with and I like to wrap it around his neck or waist and tease him with it.

          Do you have sexy shoes?? Heels!! They accent the butt really well :-)

          Strip slow...let his imagination work. Sometimes a button up shirt works well, you can un-button the buttons one at a time, SLOWLY. :-)

          Run your hands up and down your body and through your hair. Leave your hair down if you have long hair

          Make sure you have good music in the background!! It really helps set the mood and tempo.

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          • bringhomethepassion
            Member
            • May 2010
            • 10

            Don't forget the pasties to leave some imagination wondering for him. It makes it hot when you finally take them off Have fun, you're brave. I couldn't ever lol

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