[WildChild]

No one is being critical. You have expressed concern over these people's behavior and I think it would be good to get some assistance in dealing with it. I was stalked years ago and know how difficult it can be.

[Allie602]

Hi I posted before and I read your responses and wanted you to know that I can see why what is happening to you has upset you so much.
I have had some trying times in my life and this period is one. Having an outlet like WH has been a life saver. Another thing that gets me through the hard times is close family and friends that I trust. In addition to posting here, wondered if you had people in your life to support you through your troubles. I know having several outlets for assistance has gotten me through. Wishing the best to you.

[jns]

I realize I didn’t emphasize one thing that you all may find it bizarre. I was actually working for his company roughly a year and a half ago.

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It’s really bizarre, I know that my intuition is always correct.

Oh Wow! Thanks for the diagnose and politely telling me to get off your website. It’s really fun and game. We all play with this before; it’s those tacky things that you run into. If you have never experienced it, you are blessed.

I actually don’t need to do anything, except possibly stop posting here. It seems I am got getting the support. What are the explainations here that concern you? It would be nice to learn from your perspectives.

If you believe it is offensive, you can delete it. I urge you to do so. It's not very nice to criticize and have nothing to say or no reasons to back up your criticisms.

By the way, I have talked to someone of these people - not talk but sent an email to tell them to stop. I thought it was resolved, but they didn't readily take no for an answer. I thought it would be fun to see how others respond to my explainations by posting questions. The point here is not about the AC, treadmill, and the cookies. It is about people whom won't take a NO for an answer. If you could get paased the details, I think you would be less critical.

Enough bizarre stuff is happening in your life that you have to get help from someone. The stalking should be handled by the police. They will probably find the whole explanation a little strained. Therefore the mental health authorities telling them that you are in your right mind will get them to start investigating. You do need the police to help you, do you not? The best of luck on getting this situation resolved. One should not have to live this way. Do you have family who can help out?

[Just_Saying]

Just_Saying... I think if you re-read, it wasn't a diagnosis, rather, a suggestion, as there was a question mark or two... You may very well need a restraining order, who knows, so I can't see why talking to the Police, about it is a bad thing...

I think intuition is a woman's asset... But, it is possible that when we "think" something is out of sorts, we can get paranoid, anyone can...



This comment perhaps prevoked the thought, think about it. You state you "used" to fantasize and get infatuated with someone you had never met, up until your 30's... Yet, now you don't, so that's 30 years of doing so and 10 0f not doing so, what changed so that you don't feel you need to do that now?



Fun? This is a serious site, one whereby we want to help people, give information/opinions that may help... Unless you visit the Lounge section where we do have fun.



No, it's not appropriate. What if your wrong? What if, he's not even aware of you? No where is it stated that he personally is hassling you, watching you, rather, his friends.

How are you getting those signs?



How do you know his friends? How do you know they have even mentioned you to him... How do you know that this person sitting next to you at the gym even knew him? For instance.

CW

If you re-read my post, I did say several times that you may find all of it bizarre, so it is bizarre to you. I stand corrected. However, I do think that another woman calling another woman’s intuition paranoid is simply saying her intuition is umimportant and irrelevant. It’s a put down. How would you take it if someone told you that you could get paranoid after you had told them your stories?

Technically, I think I said something about in my 20’s and 30’s, so pratically it would be 20 years and not 30. From 1 year old to 20, I didn’t have those issues. The answer to your question is “Change is inevitable”. You transform or you will die.

Allie602 answered it best for question 3.

Intuition is the answer for question 4.


By the way, I do find your quote amusing but rather offensive and unencouraging. It should really say

Women are Angels

And when someone breaks our wings....

We simply continue to fly with determination and courage…

We seek to help others in need of inspiration to fly again…

We are flexible that way…

Beautiful Angels.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

... Let's take a relationship situation, we follow our intuition, get hurt, can't talk about it, think all sorts of things, then we finally want the answer, the "facts" so we talk to our SO about the situation, only to find out we were wrong, there was no ill intent, there was another reason, how dumb we feel over that, once we know, we were acting, in-secure, paranoid, about nothing... I am saying, it's an asset but the only way to find out, if our intuition is correct, is to establish the facts..

I hope your wrong, because it sounds a tad stalkish and dangerous...

Maybe reporting it, the Police could check his phone? His emails?

I like your version of my signature, mine actually means not to give up, don't let a person break you, be strong, pretty simular to what you wrote..

Take care.

[WildChild]

However, I do think that another woman calling another woman’s intuition paranoid is simply saying her intuition is umimportant and irrelevant. It’s a put down. How would you take it if someone told you that you could get paranoid after you had told them your stories?

Where has anyone here called your intuition or anything else paranoid?